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I am a male. I do get more angry when a lady offends me. The offends could be a slight one. Although i don't flare up or demostrate my anger but i get angry inside of me and it makes me feel bad. But with guys i don't really get offended. Is this normal?
As a male, I'm used to both friendly and hostile insults from men, but I've never really been insulted hostilely (yeah I made that word up) by a woman. Therefore, it would have more of an impact and probably offend me more.
Really? The two worst insults I ever received were both from girls in high school. The worst I was ever called by a guy was "fag" or "nerd", and that was junior high, when everyone was dubbed either a fag or a nerd
I think it's different in America. I find schoolgirls are more chavvy and bitchy over there.
Because I didn't socialise with girls at all, the only time they could have insulted me would be by going up to me randomly and doing it.
And to attack a random person like that, it takes a proper bully. No girls were proper bullies in my school.
But with my guy friends, we'd (semi)jokingly insult eachother on a daily basis. Or if a guy didn't like another guy, he'd insult him.
But girls would try to hold off the bad language to be more lady like and attractive.
Yeah, most of the girls at my HS were anything but ladylike xD Most of them were emotional wrecks, but so were the guys, so...
I think the guys in Jr High would insult each other sometimes, but by HS they'd moved on to leaving each other for dead, bleeding in a field. I think that's a country thing, though. (Canada isn't known for violence, but that's only because people are never speaking about my area of Canada) At my school, most guys didn't 'sink' to insulting each other anymore, it was thought of as juvenile or bitchy, only the real idiots would do that, but there were 1 or 2 guys you had to watch your mouth around or you'd be the one to end up in a field xD
I think I attended HS in the last era of physical bullying in my area. People are too interested in their smartphones to mind about people now xD My cousin tells me no one fights physically anymore. It's all cyberbullying mostly. People are nice to your face, but they attack you on your social media using dummy accounts after school, or else they send embarrassing images of you to everyone at school the next day.
Luckily, in my time, I avoided getting into any full on fights. The only time I was almost provoked was when someone threatened my gay friend, but all it took was a push to send that guy on his way. Unfortunately, a lot of it's luck. It's where your parents send you. My friend went to a school in the next town, and he told me there wasn't any bullying or homophobia or fighting or anything there. My elementary school was the same. Everybody liked each other. When you had a birthday party, you invited everyone, and not only because you got more presents.
If those females are too bitchy, you have a reason to get angry. In your case, that's just unfair.
It sounds like your masculinity is fragile.
Or you are benevolently sexist in that you expect better behaviour from women so it makes you angrier when they are rude.
I don't really deal well with bitchy women either. Especially since most are just insecure anyway.