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I gave up on dating for lots of reasons. I have resigned myself to a lonely but functional life. I just hang out by myself, work, watch movies, make food, jerk off and listen to music all day. Its not ideal, but most of the time its not so bad as long as i do not think too much about it.
Is it normal?
I gave up on dating long ago, if I ever started. Yet am happily divorced, with kids, and no shortage of women. I can't even recall how many I've slept with. None were one night stands. I just don't date. It doesn't mean I don't have sex. It simply means I don't put up with BS. Once the BS starts I give them the old heave ho.
Why must i pay all a woman's bills? Why must i pay their entertainment? They wanted to be liberated. That is like paying for sex. Rather pay up front then. It works out cheaper and far less drama and emotional drain or BS.
I avoid the 'true love' types, or needy ones, that want a ring or some kind of payment up front before getting anywhere. Or those that want to move in and ride the gravy train. I already have kids so i don't need them for their uterus or to raise kids. So what else are they marketing? Companionship I have plenty male and female and am never lonely.
You don't need to be lonely. You just need to avoid women looking for free meals and entertainment as a prologue to a free life with a roof and car provided. That is the usual goal of dating. Such heifers are only looking for a farmer to provide free grazing for them to graze and drop their calves.
Exactly, this is a exactly what this bullshit women's liberation nonsense has led to. Men paying for sex up front, we pay for it one way or another anyway, why not just get down to brass tax.
And women don't just want "equality", they want it when it benefits them.
It's funny how everyone thinks that you need a partner to be happy. It's 100% possible to be alone and happy.
I will go on to state though... I have the same mentality as you yet I found myself seeing someone anyway. The game seems so old, worn out, my heart is not exactly bursting with joy over the prospect of "a new love" but that hasn't stopped him from giving up on me and for some reason, I feel like I shouldn't shun the prospect of having a partner.
I've had my heart broken and hopes taken from me many many many many many many many times (how many? many.) but I am starting to think that maybe I should not resign myself to loneliness yet and I don't think you should either.
You are right. It is possible to be alone and happy. Being single doesn't have to equal lonely. I am a serious biker. That comes with quite a social life as where ever you go you know other bikers or strangers come up to you. I can travel for a week and almost always have a place to stay. There is always some biker meals, drinks, trip, family days, whatever. If you have any other hobby or passion it will be the same I am sure. Realtionshits are not the be all and all. Much more to do in life.
I have a long list of women as well on my phone. Some I can sleep with, some just friends. Some just want to go for rides, except I dont take them on dirt. If I need a partner, easy to find one. The ones that want a relationshit with me I keep contact limited to not lead them on. Point is I have no interest in a relationshit yet have an active social life and even sex when I want it.
I have had plenty of girlfriends, some live in and an x, and I have kids. Past few years single have been some of the best ever. More time with my kids, more time to do what I want after years of sacrificing for women. And of course far more money since Im not wasting it trying to keep some bird happy with fancy restaurants, BS holidays where I am not riding, and basically trying to make someone happy when then they can never be happy. Best to avoid people that need someone else to make them happy.
It makes sense that for every lonely guy there must be a lonely girl. You won't find her if you're sat on your arse all day.
I did the same untill I learned how to game women now when a woman becomes too expensive/annoying/nagging to hold on to I have another on the back burner, ditch her with a smooth transition . Don't be a LOSER. Learn game. No Jackin-Off your cock needs PUSSY not your hand.
That's what I do. Dating is a drain of emotional energy. Women don't really want to have fun. They fake it for a couple of dates, then stop interacting and watch TV.
Look, man..."dating" is just an avenue that gives you the opportunity to spend time with various people in order to hopefully find someone who's compatible. And that's all it really is. To make a consious effort to give up on "dating" is to choose to give up on yourself. We all should know by now that life is FAR more rewarding and worth living when you're sharing it with a person's who's right for you.
So don't close your mind, man. Keep fighting the good fight and though you may not be currently actively seeking someone, keep your mind open and stay receptive.
But you must still open your wallet to have children. White women should re-evaluate where they are going and their role because sooner or later just peddling their fanny, refusing to raise children, not cooking, spending money just to look good, ridiculous financial demands and making themselves objects will back fire. Feminists lead them astray. Many men already turn to asian or latina women to avoid the nuttiness and frivolity of white women.
Someone will invent an artifical uterus and then many white women will have no value and just be an irritant. White men will then hunt them like vermin LOL.
That is why the white race is not breeding anymore. The rubbish thrown at youth from Hebrewwood is sapping their will.
If you are going to date, then make sure it is an old fashioned white girl who is loyal, responsible, a good partner and will drop strong calves and raise them well. Modern women, forget it. Let them pay their own way. Don't date them. Sleep with them. To date them, you will be taken, and end up used up spit out and disillusioned. See them as what they are: a commodity. They market themselves like that by their behaviour, dress, actions etc. They think men should date them for the gold lining between their legs. They are disposable. The decent ones you can eventually date after you see they are decent because one should breed to ensure survival of the race and your DNA. Very soon they will insist on returning the favour.
Another reason whites aren't breeding is the stupid jew lawyer created big money divorce market. Women always flip flopped on everything, they can't organize and they certainly can't handle any sort of crisis situation, when that happens, what do they do? Call a man to solve it. When they were at home, before the idiot liberals started filling their heads with equality nonsense, they were happy now they're miserable because they are forced to join the workforce, i.e. men's culture.
This misery translates to a brutal homelife and when that happens who do they call? The divorce lawyer, available on every corner it seems. And they get rewarded for their erratic emotions with alimony.
And who ultimately ends up paying for it anyway, white men. We need to prop up those inner city blacks who continuously refuse to make any sort of contributions to a functional society.
Basically the white man props up everything, from white women, to welfare state darkies, to foreign aid to darkies, to Israel, the largest foreign aid recipient, and now all the muzzie invaders swarming into europe. Even China is dependent on purchases from whites.
The leading feminists were jewesses, and these cultural marxists wanted to destroy the core of what made the white race so dominant: the traditional white family, led by the man, with a well behaved woman supporting him and raising the kids so the man could focus on advancing his family and nation. The best way was to turn naive white women against their men and grant them an easy divorce where they could take the kids, house car pension etc stripping the man of his role and he has no say in the matter.
But the white man can fight back. I have kids, the divorce and whole disaster, but am very involved with my kids, they are provincial level athletes, top academics and they are race aware, and aware of their place and duty to reproduce white kids driven to succeed.Don't count on schools. It is now up to white men to be even more involved in raising their kids white and proud.
Forget the rubbish thrown at you by Hebrewwood, Facejew and all the other jew controlled media to weaken white youth. Leave the computer games. Take your son camping, biking, shooting, archery..any traditional white skill.
The funny thing is you have posted nonsense that goes along with women's liberation. I would be willing to bet your wife, 42 yrs your junior (according to you lol), is probably very uneducated, read:stupid, why else would she be with you (if she exists)?
It takes an incredibly classless individual to attack another person's loved one. Especially when that loved one hasn't done shit to you (she doesn't even post on here).
You have shown everybody on here exactly who you (and the other asshole who thumbed you up) what kind of ignorant, shitty person you really are.
Wallow in the gutter and enjoy.
You want to cut off your leg because you believe in your mind you are an amputee.
Do not become a hermit, that is the easy way out. Find some pussy romance her, eat her, fuck her and move on!
there are plenty of lonely desperate woman out there who deserve your attention, wanking is for emergency's only!