Is it normal i fucked my boss for a promotion?

My boss was very clear, he had two candidates for a promotion, and If I had sex with him, I would get the promotion.

I did so, knowing it was wrong, but I wanted the promotion so bad, I did it anyways. I feel bad I cheated on my husband for the promotion, but he is happy I got it.

My husband has no clue I cheated on him to get this.
I got the promotion, so that is all fine.

Is this still standard practice? Should I just keep my mouth shut, and be happy with my promotion?

You got a promotion, get over it 3
No, but keep your mouth shut 6
No, you should not of cheated on your husband under any circumstance 16
Yes, it's still standard practice 2
Yes, Keep your mouth shut 3
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Comments ( 28 )
  • S12207

    How do you people live with yourselves seriously? So basically money won over your husband?

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  • Bazinga

    Things are getting messy here. He may want to play the blackmail game with your husband. Make sure he knows your counter move is to let his management know what happened. If he wants more sexual favors from you, you raise the price unbelievably high.

    Better get your resume up to date. Sex with coworkers never ends well.

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  • Boojum

    No, of course it's not "standard practice". Have you been living in a cave for the last year, so the crap-storm about Harvey Weinstein and his ilk has passed by you unnoticed?

    I wonder if your boss owns the company you work for, or if he's a hired hand too. If the latter, those who actually own the business might not be thrilled to hear about how he decides who to promote.

    And, yeah, as others have said, you need to be aware that, having made the deal with your exploitative devil, he may well come back with further demands. If he's a total asshat (which he almost certainly is), and he doesn't have much to lose, he may even blackmail you by threatening to arrange for your husband to hear about your infidelity, or just fire you if you don't comply.

    Bottom line: while I understand why you did what you did, and I don't condemn out of hand anyone who does such things, you clearly work for a despicable man, and you've made a very uncomfortable bed for yourself.

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  • TerriAngel

    Just, move on.
    sex is just sex.
    its not really cheating.
    unless you desired the sex.
    if not, its just business.

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    • Checkmate_King

      Girl needs two pussies these days -- one for business, one for pleasure

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      • Tiffany2016

        Wouldn't that simply things... LOL..

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  • Nickvey

    i actually drove a girl to pick up her car at a shop on a saturday so she could blow the mechanic for the work he did on her car without paying him . LOL what a whore she was. Now she is a cat lady.

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    • Checkmate_King

      Did she pay you for the ride?

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      • Nickvey

        no she didnt come out of the building so i went in carefully stealthy to check up on her and thats when i saw her on her knees behind a glass service window giving services to short guys little cock , so i just backed out and waited for her to earn it . it was worth it to find out she was a cheap whore. no one would date her because she was six foot tall. , she said she intimidated people but i think it was because she was a fasts talker. we car pooled to work together and i was married so i got nothing . sad too because i would have enjoyed getting suck off on the way to work , i always showered before work , its not like she would have tasted my wife.

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        • Checkmate_King

          Nothing like road head on the way to work. Keeps you mellow on the job. She probably would have enjoyed a taste of the wife's pussy on your dick though.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Just don't cry abuse when you get fired for a hotter woman. He only offered a promotion, not job security. Otherwise it's a deal.

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  • Nickvey

    so the he hires her old job replacement and she is looking hot or new and fires you and promotes her for sex. and women wonder why they make less than men . because they are getting cycled . its your own fault .

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    • Checkmate_King

      If you live by the cheap screw, you die by the cheap screw. It all works out.

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      • sararyan7242

        Plus you don't need to "Slut shame" her. She said she knew is was wrong BEFORE.

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      • sararyan7242

        She said she knew it was wrong BEFORE she did it, and she chose to anyways. For once someone seems to be honest about the situation and doesn't have is skewed one way or the other.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    Cheating is never okay.

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    • nikkiclaire

      That's the only issue I have with this. If the husband ok'd it first then go for it. It's best to be upfront because even if he doesn't find out, guilt may strain the relationship.

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  • Tiffany2016

    From my understanding, she traded sex for a promotion and was given the promotion. It was a verbal contract, and that was honored. Both parties seem to of filled their part of the agreement.

    She knowingly got what she intended to get, so who's really to blame if anyone?

    She said she knew what the game was, and she decided to play it. It might be a minor blip with her husband, but sex is a tool for all women. I wish people weren't so obsessed with someone just having sex.

    I fucked many men to get what I wanted, and see nothing wrong with it.

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    • I'm with you, girl! If I can get a job or a job promotion by having sex with someone, advantage me!

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    • Checkmate_King

      Everything is yippy skippy until he wants it again.. and again and again until a younger, tighter pussy comes along and then it's the ol' heave-ho. The man's a skank and you played pattycake with him. Don't whine when he starts to use you like a skank cum dumpster.

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  • Bonelessbananas69

    No, you should not of cheated on your husband under any circumstance.

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  • Seems like about 50% says what I did was ok, so that is good.
    As for my boss asking for sex again, he has hinted at it, but not yet perused it, perhaps I wasn't that good in bed?

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  • sararyan7242

    Guys seem to want sluts, but not when it adversely affects them. If they are getting the pussy from the "slut" then it's cool, but from afar, they are all sluts..

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    • Checkmate_King

      He who is without slut cast the first stone. Et tu, sararyan?

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      • sararyan7242

        Am I a slut, perhaps....

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        • Checkmate_King

          aren't we all these days?

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          • Tiffany2016

            I don't mind being a slut...I actually like that people call me a slut.

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  • sararyan7242

    Sounds like you made an agreement and you got what you wanted.

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