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I'm a 20 year old woman, that ended up with 3 male room mates.
I've never paid rent as I just have sex with them, and they seem to pay my portion of the rent or so I think.
Is it normal to have sex with my male room mates?
| No, you should live elsewhere | 11 | |
| Yes, they like having a slut in the house | 19 | |
| Yes, if they pay the Rent | 8 | |
| Yes, It's Normal | 6 |
If you make a deal with them, and they pay the rent, and your do your part, I don't think you are a slut. I'd say you are an entrepreneur.
I think being a "slut" has a negative connotation to it, which I've been called, but don't believe I am.
I've used my sexuality for personal gain, but that doesn't make me a "slut"
It means I am smart, and I have sex with those I have chosen to have sex with. Those that can lead be to better things.
Sex is just an act, so to have sex for rent is nothing more than a means to an end. It does NOT make you a slut!
Sounds like you don't mind, so my guess is they like having a resident slut.
If you are ok with it, then it's fine. I've had sex with male room mates in the past, and it's fine.
I have the same question as nikkiclaire, is this something to pay for rent, or is it, it just happens, and they don't ask for rent because they want you to stay because they are getting laid?
My Dad sends me money to pay the rent, but since they never ask me for rent, I spend the money going out with my girl friends. They have no clue, I am really broke if I had to pay for rent too.
I feel like I'm almost a slut, but not really, because I am managing my money well.
Because then I would think I am a slut or "slutting around" as you call it here... Is being a slut a bad thing?
Sounds fun but you really should pay the rent.
**I should add, my only concern is that they are aware of the arrangement you seem unsure. If everyone is ok with it then it sounds wonderful.
Are you the woman (a student studying abroad, I seem to recall) who was on here a while back?
She said she was having sex with her roommates separately, and the suggestion was raised that she might try a super-special combo-move.
If that was you, any developments on the multi front?
In any case, it sounds like fun, but it would be a good idea to see if your rent is indeed actually being paid. Your little party might come to an abrupt and unpleasant end if it isn't.
I think you have a good deal, and if you can make it official, you are never paying rent, then enjoy the money your Dad sends you. Your dad probably would rather not know how you are paying the rent or spending the rent money.
I say if you are happy, and they are happy, GO FOR IT! It's a win-win situation. I just have to know one thing......Do they all know you are fucking all of them?
I agree having sex for rent does not make you a slut. A slut generally does it for free.
I do it for free, or used to, and enjoyed myself. I have no issue with the term as I don't view it with negative connotations.
The only problem I have is when women pretend to be slutty to trick a man into marrying them. Then they snap their legs shut except for 5 minutes once a week, and stop giving blowjobs. I think they are cruel. They are the true whores who sold themselves based on a lie, and they have no problem taking every last cent from a man.
Having sex for fun or profit, when done correctly with no deception, is perfectly ok with me. 😊
True. Withholding blowjobs after a deal is made is cruel and vindictive not to mention a breach of contract.
So my ex was being a slut. DAMN, that bitch. She opened up before we got married, then when married it was almost like knees JB welded shut. Then I found she was pregnant, saying it was mine because I was in the US Navy. They said regardless who dad is, I will send support. So she married me for the benefits and money while her boyfriend lived 2 blocks away. P.S. (That kid was not mine). Also I sent support thru the state. When test showed not my kid, I got my money back from state. She had hand out asking for her half. Can U Guess what I told her ?
haveing sex for rent is whorish , giving sex away freely is for pleasure the way god intended
oh come on man she is using them , all the pecker she can stand and free rent . she is the money whore not them you complete idiot. are you saying that sex is a paid only past time? she is giving it away and not a whore you dope . she should be paying rent thats the real issue. the issue is money not sex. she is using them. but like i said when she is gone they go back to having sex anyway.
Not sure she is "using" them. It sounds like everyone is getting what they want.
I do agree that she should be paying rent. Sex shouldn’t be a form of currency/ payment.
I dont know if the conversation was:
Her: how bout we have sex in exchange for rent.
Or vice versa.
they were probably cornholing each other before you came along , it happens. when you leave they will go back . its why three guys are willing to share you , its because they were sucking each other first. lots of guys that live together have sex on the down low. and when one gets a girlfriend they wind up sharing.