Is it normal i find my gf too obsessive about me?

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Hi guys,
It starts a couple of months back when i came into relationship with this girl. i was so crazy about her amd we made all that commitment to never split. After some time ,now i realize that she does so much stupid things. She fight every next day. Whenever i want something from her just like a voice note she would say that her mom dad around so she can't. I say to her that i am busy and can't talk right now but she creates a scene that you are always busy and there is nothing like that. she's too obsessed about me. There are so many petty things like this. I am so confused to have such feelings about her as i made so called commitment. I don't feel like to continue my relationship. is it normal to have such feelings?
Should i stop seeing her?

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Based on 12 votes (8 yes)
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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    7 years ago

    A commitment to never split? So basically you proposed to her after a few months. There's a reason people don't do that. You don't really know someone after this short of a time. I don't think you should just end it. But talk to her about this, and how you feel about her behaviour. Give her a chance to change things and find out how you could adapt too. If that doesen't work you can still end it.
    But don't stay with her just because you feel you have to. That's not very loving, and she probably wouldn't like that eiter.

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    • Tealights
      7 years ago

      The name of your account doesn't lie, you are awesome!

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      • AbnormallyAwesome
        7 years ago

        Thanks :)
        That's so nice

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    • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#Z6
      7 years ago

      Filth Stench and disease.

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    7 years ago

    Possessiveness comes automatically for whom we love dear. So carry on relationship with her.

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  • NyxScott
    7 years ago

    Advice, friend: do not, do not, do not make those relationship commitments until you've been with them for many months. As it is now, she has obsessive feelings, and you didn't know that back then when you two made promises. Now here you are, wanting out of it. This does not only put you in a bad position, you very much hurt her trust and self confidence, as it would have affected any one. Imagine, someone who swore they'd never leave you, but in two months they get the heck away because you are how you are. Anyways, also, with the commitment to stay together FOREVER, it is normal for her to get obsessive. Big words. Big actions. And yes. It's normal for you to find your girlfriend obsessive. As it is, try to understand her point of view. Talk it out first, if she can listen. Expresses your dislike on some of the things, maybe tell her you need space. Good luck.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    God damn, boy! You need to talk to this chick, and tell her you need some muthafuckin space! This is why people take their time to get to know someone before making a major commitment. I'm sorry that you have to learn all of this the hard way. Don't make those kinda promises, and don't be afraid to break this stupid promise.

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