Is it normal i feel this way?

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Me and my boyfriend got into a argument last night and we haven't talked for a whole day and I can honestly say I'm okay. I do miss him terribly and keep checking my phone. But I don't plan on texting him until he makes a effort to contact me. Is it normal that I'm not crying and sitting in a corner ? If I'm not sad does that mean my feelings aren't strong ? I think they are I'm just not texting because I need an apology

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    I'd help, but I don't know what the argument was about. If I knew I could give you some helpful* incite.

    *mostly helpful, but not 100% of the time. Only human.

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    • u_danestt
      8 years ago

      We were on the phone and he told me he hated me then hung up on me !

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        I'm sure that's not the whole story. I can honestly say this has never happened to me.

        them: The movie starts at eight, right?

        me: Yeah, want to go early to see the previews?

        them: I HATE YOU! *hangs up*

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        • u_danestt
          8 years ago

          Well the "I hate you " is the main reason. But it started when he told me that I was using him BC I asked him to get me food on my break at work ! And after he said that I was really mean BC it hurt my feelings. And he was begging me to be nice. But I continued to be mean BC he can stay mad for 2 weeks and expect for it to be okay and I can't ?

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          • Arm0se
            8 years ago

            Ah. I see. Ya you should apologize. Trust me just do it.

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            • u_danestt
              8 years ago

              But honestly its ALWAYSS me apologizing. I DOO love him ,but if there's no respect than there's no relationship!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Ego can destroy a relationship as fast or faster, than just about anything else.
    You both could be waiting for an apology until one of you meets someone else. Good luck.

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  • JD777
    8 years ago

    Well, the altruistic approach would be not have gone to bed mad that night, but this stuff happens. Seems like you each need some space. That is unless he thinks the argument resulted up in a breakup. The bigger person will contact the other. And whoever is the one contacted needs to avoid seeing being the one contacted as "winning."

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    • u_danestt
      8 years ago

      I decided that this means we aren't together , because I feel like If an individual can go this long without contacting me than I need too stop wasting my time. If the situation were switched I would apologize ,but then again I would never say "I hate you "

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      • (s)aint
        8 years ago

        Sooo what happened?

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Unless your boyfriend is justified he really should be the bigger person here and initiate contact IF that's what he wants. I don't think you're in the wrong.

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  • liberty_
    8 years ago

    Maybe you just need some time apart? idk never had a boyfriend but judging by what you're saying that you aren't sad, it probably means that you guys need some time apart. hope it all works out okay!

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  • Asstastics
    8 years ago

    When communication has stopped like this, the prognosis is very bad.

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