Is it normal i feel she lead me on even though she knew i liked her ?

I told my crush my feelings after 6 yrs how I felt. It was a massive thing to do as it also made me question my sexuality! Apparently she already knew. She told me its because we are friends and that's why she knew this. She also said I'm hard to read?? My main upset is the fact she knew & always used to act in ways that'd hurt me like pash her bf right in front of me! If she ever spoke about him, I'd quickly change the topic, I'm sure she got that!? Its like she was indifferent towards my feelings & not sensitive to the fact I was hurting! is it normal she acted this way? I feel she also lead me on, say things like she loves me heaps and that we had a connection and it was intense, kind of like romance. When I met up half way to see her to proclaim my feelings, she said in the text we could share a room. She asked if I wouldn't mind sharing a bed ? To save money . That never eventuated, but why was she teasing me like this??!

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  • Keepsake

    Maybe you misread the way she treated you. First off, if someone has a significant other that's enough of a reason to stop yourself from becoming too close. Secondly, she said you're hard to read. She probably had an impression of you liking her, but couldn't really say so for sure.

    You're not going to get special treatment and you should've expected that from someone who was taken.

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  • felixy

    You're just upset she didn't return your feelings, and you're reflecting over her past actions while you're feeling bitter, which makes everything feel like a personal attack.

    Hopefully you mature sooner rather than later, and come to be able to appreciate the real friendship you had with her instead of bitter memories.

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  • RoseIsabella

    What does "pash"mean?

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