Is it normal i feel my girlfriend is too pretty for me

She is very pretty, and she has the more important qualities as well.

I don’t know if it is because I’m depressed, but I’m almost asking myself what dose my gf see in me? She says she’s never been happier, and so am I except for feeling unworthy.

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Based on 18 votes (13 yes)
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  • BassDays

    Honestly, almost everyone feels this though I'm sure people with depression have it worse. You love her (I'm assuming) so of course, you're gonna idolize her and think she's above you. It's cause you put her before yourself.

    Try to think of it this way. If she didn't love you then she'd get up and leave. She hasn't cause she does love you. You complete her and help her be the great person she is. So give yourself some credit!

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  • Boojum

    Sorry - and I know it dates me - buy I immediately visualised Garth and Wayne bowing down and saying, "We're not worthy! We're not worthy!"

    Look, for whatever reason, your girlfriend likes being with you. Respect her, respect her decision, and try to be happy. There are loads of lonely people in the world and it's certain that some of them are nicer and more attractive than you, but she's with you, so you lucked out. Don't fuck it up by getting all angsty. Not many people like being with people who think they're shit. After all, if you think you're a crappy excuse for a human being, what does that say about what you think of your girlfriend's judgement?

    Don't try to analyse why precisely she likes you, and don't ask her to list the qualities she likes about you. That comes across as needy and pretty damn pathetic.

    Look at it as a challenge to become the sort of person your wonderful girlfriend deserves to be with.

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  • IrishPotato

    Sounds like it's just you having low self esteem.

    Don't worry bud, I mean she must see SOMETHING in you that she likes so I wouldn't worry about it.

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  • LornaMae

    I voted "no". Just because. If she likes you SHE thinks you're worthy, believe it! :)

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  • Peony

    pretty much i think she is too pretty for you and u might be dumb that thats ok cuz she lvoes u

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  • Peony

    idk, i am very pretty and my bf is stupid but he worships me and i lvoe him

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  • BlindSpot

    Sounds like low self-esteem, but a little introspection never killed anyone. We should always work towards self-improvement, in any case.

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