Is it normal i feel like i'm keeping a dark secret from my sister?

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We tell each other everything.
As far as I know she thinks I'm straight or actually asexual since I've never had a relationship.

I feel a big part of my life is missing to her. She doesn't know I went through heartbreak or that I've even been in love.
She doesn't know because not only did she hate my ex friend but I had feelings for a girl.
She'll probably think I'm lesbian and I'm not ready for her judgemental opinions since she can be like that.

I feel weird I fell in love with a woman because I never felt anything towards girls before her.

Yet this was years ago and sometimes when the discussion of relationships are brought up and stuff, I just want to tell her

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  • Yungteenboi23
    6 years ago

    Bro keep it a secret

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I think it's normal to have some secrets. My sister and I don't know everything about each other, but we're not that close.

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    Do you have a brother? Brothers don't want to know anybody's secrets. They have a mildly irritating way of cheering up their sisters. Before you know it, you are laughing and trying to stop it so he doesn't notice.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Siblings don't have a right to know the details of each other's intimate lives. If you're certain your sister's reaction to this information would poison a relationship that's generally positive and valuable to you, then you're probably right to keep this part of your personal history to yourself.

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