Is it normal i feel like i am developing feelings for another guy?

I have a boyfriend and I love him. Yet we've been fighting so much lately...And then there's this other guy whom I'd never imagine having anything with to begin with. This guy is so calm and sweet, the exact opposite of my guy when we fight. And his presence makes me nervous...so nervous it makes me feel so guilty...I love my boy but I am so confused...Is it just the contrast? What I lacked? Not really, my boyfriend is great...what is wrong with me? How can I develop feelings for someone else?

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Based on 16 votes (11 yes)
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  • yesnomaybeso

    I think it's normal! Specially if you have been fighting with your guy. There's not that much you can do, if you really love your guy try to forget about the new one cause he will only bring problems. But if you're not sure maybe try to start a friendship with the new guy and see if you really do like him, and then, decide what to do with your life?

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  • SaltySaltster

    Fuck you SKANK

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    • What part of me never even thinking of leaving my boy for another or cheating on him makes me a skank? I believe feelings do not make me anything degrading...I'm confused...

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  • mysistersshadow

    Its normal. Maybe it will pass maybe it won't. Only you can decide what to do. Wait it out or dump your bf for guy #2. You haven't given enough info to be very helpful.

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