Is it normal i feel jealous thinking about my girlfriend having sex with her ex

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hi so im 20 and my girlfriend is 41 her ex girlfriend was her first ever proper relationship (shes 100% lezzy). I love her with everything and i know the foul woman has no place in her heart after what she did but I have times where I cant help but think things like 'that woman had you for nine years too much' and 'those years shouldve been ours' but the obvious problem there is id have been 11 these thoughts are doing my head in and it doesnt help when people (mutual friends) start off a conversation about what stupid things this foul woman has been doing and starting my girlfriend off on a slagging war, ive been with her nearly two years and her ex still keeps trying to 'warn me' of how much of a bad bastard my girlfriend is (I know these issues arent true, she has moments but who doesnt).

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  • RoyRogers
    7 years ago

    Firstly stop talking to your girlfriends ex about her. Second you are an insecure idiot if you are judging your girlfriend over things she cant ever change now.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Its normal to have feelings its how you act or don't act upon them thats important. You can let it ruin your relationship or you can let it go. Its your choice.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    There's no point whatsoever in being jealous of a past relationship. I think you need to grow up a lot

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