Is it normal i feel bothered i dated a guy who now has a mail order bride?
I went out with a guy 2 years ago. At first I liked him he seemed put together had a nice job, a nice house, a good car plus he was polite and romantic. It made me wonder when he confided in me about having trouble keeping a woman but I would soon find out why. He had a total breakdown our third date, crying thinking I would leave him and that I "didnt love him". He also told me stuff about his penis and that he isnt sex crazed...
My intention was not to keep seeing him but he was pushy and text me everyday "i'm taking you out tonight" then he would pick me up. Shortly I started enjoying his company, probably to cope, but it didn't last long. I enjoyed the attention a bit because im lonley (which he said was a big advantage because he doesnt like social women) but he got desperate and demanded sex and tried to bribe me with expensive gifts and sending me rants about how he would cry DAILY because he was so enchanted by me.
I eventually manaed to get rid of him only for us to get back in touch last year. He was seeing someone else but dumped her to date me. It was going better until he started demanding sex and I told him im not ready and he started trying to guilt me intoit. He knew i'm, as he put it, an "innocent" person and not easy like other women which he said he loved yet he got upset when I wasn't easier to get in bed...
He got back with his ex whom I found out is a mail order bride plus they've been travelling back and forth during this pandemic. He's acted odd since I blocked him on facebook, he deleted his account and after several months made a new one without adding anyone then deleted that account after 2 days and made another one. I notice because they pop up in "people you may know" for some reason. I feel very bothered that i've dated the type of man who would get a mail order bride especially knowing he's misogynistic. He said once he would never befriend a woman if she won't sleep with him and that women don't like him because he's a nice guy. I didn't think men like him existed other than in memes.