Is it normal i dont think i can last in a long term relationship?

Most of my relationships end because the other person wanted a fling and gets bored after a few months. However I have dated people who lasted over a year before and it got very very boring. I dont know if it was just the fact they did not go further than kissing though but it started to get to the point where I wanted to go back to being friends. Where all the romance and allure was suddenly gone. You cant be with someone for 2 years and suddenly say "I just want to be friends again".

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  • chole

    Yes, you can. It's called the goody-two-shoes break up and snake out.

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    • What?

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      • chole

        Sorry if I was not very clear. That was a reply to your

        "You cant be with someone for 2 years and suddenly say 'I just want to be friends again.'"

        Truth be told, the lack of physical intimacy for a relationship over a year just begs the question: was your partner asexual?

        Anyhow, that is not very common. Perhaps when you find yourself in another relationship with more sentimental and physical connection, you wouldn't be bored.

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        • I dont know after they broke up with me got with someone else and a few month later had an unwanted pregnancy.

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          • chole

            How unfortunate.

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