Is it normal i dont know why i am not mature?

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not like she was my gf but were hanging out for awhile and she said she didnt want to get in a relation with me cuz not mature enough for her. Dont get it i am 23 i got a job pay my own bills, live in my own apt. How else can i be mature? I said fine now we dont talk anymore but her comment for a week is making me mad. Did she say that to fuck my mind or is there something i dont know? What else does it take to be mature?

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  • deshikd
    8 years ago

    It could just be the way you act or speak. The mature thing to do would be to ask her about it.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Usually when women play the "maturity card" they are saying they don't like you. It has very little to do with maturity.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    There is a difference between being a grownup and being mature.

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    • sillygirl77
      8 years ago

      Agree.

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  • LavenderLove
    8 years ago

    I think what she means is your action. Maybe she thinks the way you act is immature or maybe you don't understand her feeling.

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