Is it normal i dont know what to say and can u help me out people please?

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My friend ended it with me few months ago . I txt her today asking if she wantd to talk about things, and to my surprise she replied saying sure! :)
The thing is, idk what to say when talkin to her on the phone…
I initially ended it because she came all the way up to where i live to mainly go to a bday thing and visit people. I was hurt at how I wasnt realy important for her to see, she did see me but not for long so i ended it. I didnt say why. Then bowt 5 months later I txt her and she seemed anoyed at the notion of me keepin in touch with her mum and brother, yet not her. How Do I explain my self? In my eyes I felt her to be untruthful with how she said she felt so glad to have me bak in her life, and how she felt bit guilty for not comin to c me. Then she comes up and brushes me off as last on her list, what should I say to her so she can see my point of view with out taking it the wrong way?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    Just tell her what you said here? "I was hurt that you came up here and did not visit me as well and I did not know how to tell you.".

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      She did but initially she said she can come over and can drop off somethng I left at hers, but cant stay long as har lots peopkte to visit.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    First world problems.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Be quiet if u have nothing helpful to say.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        You know what, asshole? If you don't fucking like my opinion, then delete it like a gentleman, rather than tell me what you think I should say or not say. That ain't your fucking place.
        You come off like a fucking crybaby with no balls, about a problem that only somebody with plenty to eat, drink, and has all the possessions anyone could want, could even imagine; FIRST WORLD PROBLEMS, nothing more.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Nice ! Only immature people like u have a foul mouth that should have been washed out with soap a long time ago. Im female actually and for the side note - What u said is an absolute irrelevant opinion. You may as well say that to everyone on this site ! Some posts are absurd and/or disturbingly gross. Why waste an imature and irrelevant comment on my post thats actually a genuine issue to me when u can go and complain else where! You are in fact the cry baby considering ur 68 odd and have nothing else better to say -_-

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            'Mouth washed out with soap'? Are you simple minded or what?
            As for the rest, parroting my post back to me also indicates you are a bit shy in the brains department. When they were handing out brains, did you think they said trains, and figured you didn't need one of those?
            Your post has no depth and your response even less. People are being massacred all around this planet every second of every day, and all you care about is this trivial shit?
            Sorry, being so overly dramatic about some girl you'll probably never see again after graduation, seems silly to me.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              Nothing to do with a simple mind and an action like that is a good idea for people like u. Its smart and nesessary!
              Haha what an old joke in the book!
              You are really thick for a 68 year old! Not everything in life is going to be deep and revolved round others! Some have personal problems u know and just because they are having a domestic or similar issue doesnt mean they DONT care about anything else in life like world wide famine.
              You could complain about anything else chatastropic occuring in todays society. Instead of dishing ur issues onto others and trying go convince them that that is the only thing we should be worrying about- How about u go and be a big brave old man, grow some balls, stop complaining and go do something about it if ur so dam worried.

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  • chakrabortysanjeet24
    9 years ago

    Pour your heart out.

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    Tell her how you feel without accusing her of anything and see how she reacts. She sounds a bit confused about how she feels about you

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  • chained_rage
    9 years ago

    Tell her that a few times you two have been around this track
    And that it's not just gonna happen like that.
    Because you ain't no hollaback girl.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Yea , the fact that shes actin like this makes me wonder how genuine she was with the things she said. I ment it when i told her I really love her and how i missed her more than any one else. She told me straight to my face that she loves me heaps, shes so glad to hav me bak in her life! She evn cried when I left to go home frm staying with her. Can some1 still mean all this after how she acted coz im really confused?? please reply!

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  • Redcoats
    9 years ago

    Just say whatever comes from your heart. Tell her you were hurt by what she did, but also admit you made a mistake and you miss her.

    Ask if you can start again and want to meet up?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Thanks for that- Considering how she acted does that cancel out all the endearing things she said tn me? Such as "im so luky to hav u bak in my life" (numerous times), that she luvs me heaps and we had a conection that day"?

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      • Redcoats
        9 years ago

        I don't know, you'll just have to see (:

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          I rang her but she was in such a depreso mood! I explained how i felt brushed off and she was like "is that all"? I said no, there have been similar times. Basically she said it wasnt personal and she had alot of people to visit in a short space of time, doesnt mean that she doesnt care about me. I just said I understand. But I dont really, a person who adamently says stuff like they missed me heaps etc wouldnt do what she did! Id make them priority not just anothr "friend"

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          • Redcoats
            9 years ago

            Everybody is different, a good friend of mine is like that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Did u get my mesrage?

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          • Redcoats
            9 years ago

            No I didn't ):

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