Is it normal i dont fantasize about real people?

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To be clear, I'm not fantasizing about myself and fictional characters. I haven't, to my memory, ever fantasized about a real person, as it makes me very uncomfortable. I also don't have any fantasies involving myself because it makes me feel sinful and disgusting. As well, I find the idea of MYSELF having sex disgusting (but I still want to, eventually.) Somehow, despite that, I do fantasize often about fictional pairings from games, books, etc.. Even that is making me uncomfortable because of voice actors (for the games), but I simply can't stop myself. I don't touch myself in any way, watch porn, etc., so it's kinda my only vaguely sexual outlet. Is this normal??

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  • SkullsNRoses
    4 years ago

    Fancying fictional characters is normal but feeling guilty and sinful for feeling sexual desire isn’t.

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    • palehorse
      4 years ago

      You hit the nail on the head right here.

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  • Clunk42
    4 years ago

    I agree.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Yeah I don't think everyone does. It's pretty weird how you never masterbate and you think the idea of you having sex is disgusting. Are you 13 years old?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      No, I just have odd standards of disgusting and not disgusting. Of course, I've pressed up against things once or twice in my life, and it was nice, but I immediately felt gross afterward and stopped before any self-pleasuring could begin.

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        That's so fucking weird lol. Why do you feel so guilty about pleasuring yourself? Just about everyone does it!

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      • palehorse
        4 years ago

        Were you brought up in an abnormal setting? Possibly a particularly backwards religion?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          No. I've always believed in the Christian God, but I take the Bible as a whole with a grain of salt. No one in my life has ever told me that touching myself is wrong, and I know it's a perfectly normal thing for people to do, I just feel bad when I'm the one considering doing it. It makes me feel unclean and disgusted.

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          • palehorse
            4 years ago

            Hmm... Have you ever thought about why you feel this way? I don't want to jump to any conclusions, but there might be something deeper going on, because this definitely isn't normal. If it's impacting your life significantly (and it sounds like it is taking a toll on your mental / sexual health), consider talking to a therapist or something about it. Good luck!

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