Is it normal i don't want to have casual sex?

I'm a female (28) and frequently men act nicely towards me and then want to have sex but I don't. I prefer closeness and a relationship to one-night-stands. But they tell me that I should be more open-minded and gain more experiences. is it normal I don't want to do this?

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88% Normal
Based on 16 votes (14 yes)
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  • Whatintarnation

    Seems normal to me.

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  • AlasAtlas

    I dont like that this world is like this. I was a virgin until 20 and oh my god these people are on some Sodom and Gomorrah shit. There are people who want open casual sex and others who are more reserved. Nothing wrong with either but it seems more normal these days to be into that open relationship casual sex never tied down kind of thing. Just be yourself don't let anyone pressure you into something you don't want

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  • fakeaccount2

    Same, I cant even feel sexually attracted to a person unless I am very close to them first. Unfortunately almost no one seems to feel like putting in that effort and I’ve only ever been attracted to 1 person in my life (but been asked out/hit on by many) I’m 26

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  • Emokate

    How many guys have you been with in the past, like relationships or one night stands? I would imagine the novelty of sex wears off when you're older so it's probably normal.

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    • Relationships: 2, one-night-stands: 4 or 5, so not that many. I just don't find casual sex as fulfilling as being in a relationship.

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    • That’s astounding.

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      • Emokate

        What is?

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        • The novelty of sex wearing off in her 20s. How many partners have you had?

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          • Emokate

            None.

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            • Therefore your statements are astounding. The number of sexual partners someone had, has no relationship to wanting a relationship and being sexually monogamous. Please remember this so when you become active you have some sense about it.

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  • 100% normal. At 28 those days should be over if you want a relationship.

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  • Pink-pumpkin

    Don't listen to these rancid fuckers. Keep being yourself and don't try that stupid shit one night stand thing. Relationships are way better.

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  • Not wanting to have casual sex is your normal. For me, my normal is wanting to have sex with as many people as I can (male and female). There is nothing wrong with either choice.

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