Is it normal i don't want to get serious but i still wanna have something

This is in general but for now i have someone in particular. I met him recently and we have been talking and finally we kissed so there was something there. We both straight up said lets just have fun meaning (to me) hang out and considered atleast an item. I am usually those types who don't get serious to the point of relationships just flings i guess. But serious ones? blehhh...

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  • MXgairly

    You mussst tell him, im with a guy now that loves me tells me all the time, and yeah dont get me wrong, i love him, but he is all serious about it, im not and i dont wanna be here :( but i love him and dont wanna hurt him. Tell him.

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  • Yeah you need to actually talk to him and tell him how you feel about all this. That way no one is dragged through the mud.

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  • gowila

    When he says he just wants to have fun, he means just have sex and no relationship

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  • u MUST let the dude know this. i was hurt cuz my ex didnt tell me that.

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    • mfabius:ur ex just wanted a fling or what ?

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      • so that means he doesnt like me at all ? if he doesnt want a relationship with me thats fine cause i dont either i just wanna be with him like a fling without him thinking hes playing me cause hes not.

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