Is it normal i don't want to drive there?

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Me and my ex are still close friends and we like to hang out sometimes. Here's the issue since she graduated college she moved home which is 2.5 hours away.
I suggested we meet up in this city, it's about a half way point between her house and my college and there's more stuff to do there than in either of our towns.

Here's the issue, she hates driving. When we were dating she would either have me drive her or she just wouldn't go anywhere. She has a car and a license but she refuses to drive.
She wants me to come all the way to her house that's 5 hours of driving in one day I don't want to do that. She said she'd ask her dad if I could spend the night so I could drive back the next day but I never stayed at her house when we were dating so now that we're not that would be awkward as shit around her family. (For those thinkning her invitation to spend the night is an invitation for sex believe me it's not)

is it normal I don't want to drive all that far?

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Based on 21 votes (17 yes)
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  • Cookiecutter
    7 years ago

    Its 5 hours of driving with no compromise no sane person would want that. Maybe try skyping instead of meeting up since she wont compromise your doing all the work and thats a terrible friendship.

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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    Value your time more.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I think it's rather selfish of her to expect you to do all the driving, especially since ya'll aren't dating anymore. If ya'll ever want to get back together then this could be an issue if you get tired of doing all the driving. Is there anything that you hate doing and could see yourself designating as her sole responsibility? I'm just curious really.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Not really, and this isn't the only problem we had. It's honestly not even one of her crazier quirks compared to some of the other stuff.

      We tried dating 3 times, the last time I ended it I'm determined to be done.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Good for you, then certainly stay done!
        :-)

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  • .Yourmindisfuckedup.
    7 years ago

    Sounds suspicious,she's up to something!!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      no she just really hates driving, its one of her 9 thousand infuriating quirks.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        She must be crazy if she expects a guy to accept all of that without her working on fixing any of it.

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