Is it normal i don't want to cook?

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Okay one, I am a girl and I do know how to cook but never really cooked for people. I get kind of nervous. And then second, I'm not like pro either. But these guys want me to cook and it scared me at first cause omg the pressure of being a girl and not knowing how to cook! But then I was like screw that. Just cause I'm a girl you think I'm going to cook for you? How annoying. I kind of want to stand up and just be like why don't you cook that week? Why me? These guys are letting me stay over their place for a few days and of course I'd love to treat them but I wonder...if i were a guy would they still ask me to cook? Thats what I found annoying.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    When I was single and interested in a gal, I'd invite her over to the boat and cook a nice meal for her. Why are you making this into such a sexist thing? If you can cook and are good at it, why not share your talents with others? Plenty of single guys would gladly supply the "fixins" for a meal, if someone else would cook; lots of free meals.
    If you cook, you shouldn't have to wash up, too, another plus, in my book.
    I doubt anybody has it in mind to keep you barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, so relax a bit and share your ability.

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  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    have u ever heard that the way to a man's heart is thru his stomach?

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    Don't you know a woman's place is in the kitchen?

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  • nearly_normal
    9 years ago

    I don't really like to cook much either. It seems to be a chore most days but I never mind making grilled cheese sandwiches, though I don't really consider that cooking.
    I love to read cooking magazines though. Reading about it and thinking about cooking those things is more fun to me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I'm a female too and I love cooking. Sure, I still get nervous that I might mess up but every chance I get to cook, I do. If I could make myself a cooked meal for breakfast, lunch and supper I would. The other posters are right, don't try make them out to be a sexist because they want you to cook. Its not a case of "she's a women, its her duty to cook" but more of a "wow, we're having a girl over, and they're probably really good at cooking, maybe she'll cook for us"

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    I hate cooking. I used to like it but I just have to do it because I cant afford to buy pre made meals and nobody else does it. But its normal to hate cooking, just like any chore.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Don't turn this into sexism because you are insecure. Since they are allowing you to stay over, I can see why they are coming from with the cooking aspect. If you aren't confident enough, order some take out. Pay for it or split it with the guy.

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