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I hate having friends. I just feel like they are a burden to me and its too heavy to carry but the problem is people just flock to me and i can't do anything. I can't just throw away everyone i know like garbage but i don't want them
Most of them are very nice people but others just come to me because no one else will talk to them
I know but a lot of people come to me when they are upset for some reason and I can't just ignore them
Look man, some people need more friends and social interaction than others, but most people would consider not wanting to have ANY friends to be a problem. I don't have to many myself, can easily count them on one hand, but without any, I just don't think you can enjoy life the same.
I don't want to be your friend either. But, you are welcome to talk to me. It's okay to talk to people even if you know it isn't worth your time. Indifferent people feel better when their indifference is validated by examining the apathy and chaos of the world.
You are lucky to have people approach you. Not everyone gets to have many friends. There are millions who long to have at least one friend in their life. Maintain a distance but don't avoid them completely.
Im kind of the same way really, maybe not quite as extreme , but i certainly value my independence and solitude more than most i think. i traveled for many years alone, and while i still interacted with people and made friends i was happy i always had the freedom to carry on with my journey alone. unless of course i found a woman, that'd tie me down for a bit , but it wouldn't be too long until the trade off was too much to pay, id leave the love and or sex behind and carry on with complete freedom to spend my time exactly how i wanted with no other gravitational force of a person requiring me to orbit with them.