Is it normal i don't know whether i'm a lesbian or bi?

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So yeah, I'll keep it short. Basically my feelings stand like this: I am definitely attracted to girls, sexually and romantically. I've never had a girlfriend, though, only boyfriends. I don't know whether I like guys or not; I recognise when a guy looks at me, but I don't know whether I'd want anything to happen. I don't really like the idea of being sexually involved with a guy, but I watch hetero porn a lot. When I watch it, I don't know whether I'm getting turned on by the guy or the girl. I don't know, please help! I'm 18 and need this sorted out in my head!

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Why do you need to label yourself? I'm pretty sure it will all become apparent once you become sexually active, but since you aren't now, what does it matter what you call yourself?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    You've had boyfriends. If you were sexually attracted to them, then you're bisexual.

    If you weren't, and done it anyway, you're a lesbian.

    That simple.

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    • megadriver
      9 years ago

      +1. She is a bi.

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  • Petrichor.
    9 years ago

    I wouldn't even try to use porn to help determine your sexual orientation - I think anyone get aroused by the act alone, so it's not a good gauge.

    Anyway, as tough as this might be, you're going to have to figure it out on your own. It sounds like a very confusing thing for you and adding the opinions of other people may complicate things for you even more.

    You could be bi,
    you could a lesbian,
    you could be straight,
    but you're going to have to figure it out for yourself.

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    Don't worry about a label. It doesn't matter. Do what you do without carrying this needless weight on your shoulders.

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  • Reaper101
    9 years ago

    You could always watch lesbian porn... I watched gay porn and that's how I really figured it out

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  • pussnboots
    9 years ago

    On your own

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  • pussnboots
    9 years ago

    You need to figure it out soon your own.

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