Is it normal i don't know what the hell i want to do with my life?

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I used to want to go to law school, but now in my second semester of my junior year of college and I'm sick of school, I will finish to get my bachelors degree but I hate it.

I don't know what job I want after school.

I don't know what to do about my ex, I've known her for 3 years, we dated for more than a year before I ended it about 2 months ago and now I want her back, I'm even thinking about marriage. I think getting back together is a bad idea but I can't get her out of my head, she's graduating in a few months and the thought of her being gone is messing with me.

I thought I might want freedom, so after I broke up I went on a few dates with a couple girls, but found myself bored with them. One of the girls wanted to fuck on the fist date, but I was repulsed by it. Which makes me wonder what the hell is wrong with me, the girl wanted sex and I was not interested at all, I later told my dad about that, he gave me a very strange and confused look.

I'm afraid of settling down because I don't want to lose my freedom at only 20 years old but at the same time, I don't know what the hell i need that freedom for; I don't drink, I don't do drugs, I don't like parties the music is too loud for me, and to my own surprise I found that I don't want one night stands, since when I had the chance for one I was bored and repulsed by it.

in short i don't know what the hell i'm doing with my life IIN?

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Will probably be hard to know how you feel about your ex while you're still figuring out your school and career plans. Not knowing what's coming next is unsettling. It's easy to want to reach out for something stable, like someone you know well from a prior relationship, and to think about marriage. But please don't reach out to your ex until you have a better sense of your feelings! You could end up really hurting her if you find out later that you made the right choice originally to break up.

    I'm in law school now. And took a decent amount of time off between undergrad and going to law school. During undergrad I was so sick of school, I even thought about not finishing my bachelors degree. I think it was useful for me to spend some time after college graduation working, seeing what was available, and figuring out what I wanted to do. If I had gone to law school right out of undergrad I would have gone crazy. Not saying you should go to law school (it sucks in many ways). But maybe it's something to put on a shelf and think about later...

    Also, lots of people (guys and girls) aren't into one night stands. It's our silly culture that tells men they're supposed to always be open to sex no matter what.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    Wow it's like i just read my own life

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    Completely normal.

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