Is it normal i don't know if i want my gf?

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so I'm not sure if I should stay with my girl friend.. I don't think she's a very good person for me to be with as she has mental issues and is overall very negative. I honestly need someone who is mentally strong and positive. I like her obviously and I love her body but sex is kinda a let down. Mostly because she cant get me off easy, I'm not sure why. She also doesnt want sex often with me but i love sex and want it often. when I'm around her I feel like I'm in love. Although our communication is bad as I find it really hard to talk to her and she feels the same. I tried to break up with her a little while ago and when I met her she was saying how she wanted to kill herself and hurt herself because of things.

I cant leave her for some reason though even when things aren't as good as they could be. i want to stay with her because i do like her personality, body, i like the comfort, sex..

i also kinda want to leave her to be with a man as i am female. ive never been with a guy and I'm really curious. i guess i don't think I'm good enough to get someone who is not my gf.

what do you guys think?

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Based on 27 votes (18 yes)
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  • Kindbred
    7 years ago

    Leave her.

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  • yellow.
    7 years ago

    Be kind, tread lightly, breakups suck enough, without the other person being a dick.

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  • Fatty_McJiggles
    7 years ago

    People that threaten suicide at any time for whatever reason are not mentally competent or mentally sound AT ALL. This is a manipulation tactic that she is using to make you feel guilty and responsible for her own choices and her own behavior.

    The sex problem is something personal for you, if your needs aren't getting met in that regard, but everything else was going well, you'd have to consider that everything won't always be perfect.

    The suicide and overall negativity is just a downer in general. As much as you may want to help her or think you can help her, she has to help herself. If she's just a negative person overall eventually these types of people just try to bring others down into their misery, because misery LOVES company.

    You wouldn't deserve that as you stated you want someone who is mentally strong and positive. You probably need to move on from this relationship.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    You need to do whats best for you. In the end if your not happy whats the point?

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