Is it normal i don't know how i feel about this girl?

There is a girl who said she loved me and I kind of ignored her at the time. She kept insisting and I opened up my heart. I told her I wanted to be with her and she said no.... Maybe because I ignored her a little or because she was just trying to see if I really loved her. I tried my best to tell her hoe much I loved her and she just said no. I then gave up and she started seeing another guy and I was cool with it until she left him and she came back to me. I was still a little hurt and so when she told me she had left the other guy she tried to kiss me and I just wasn't sure if I wanted to kiss her I felt like she was still in a relationship with the other guy and I'm not the kind of guy who touches other people's girls unless I'm not informed. A few days ago we talked and we started a relationship but it didn't go anywhere because I think she was seeing someone else " that's a long story so just understand that there is a reason why I think she was seeing someone else".
M real problem is it seems we can't be together but I get jealousy when I see her with other men and When she goes out looking like she is going on a date... I don't want to love her but it seems like I can't control myself when she flirts on the phone. I tried spending less time with her to avoid seeing her but I still want to be friends with her and I talked with her and we are more like friends but she still doesn't want me to know if she is seeing someone.
Do we love each other or am I just desperate?

Don't mind my English :P

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Comments ( 8 )
  • TheCockRoach

    She's playing you and woman do as you describe to keep their options open. If you really want her then make her think you DON'T want her and YOU have options and I guarantee you she'll want to fuck.

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    • You are probably right. I did keep my distance when I was trying to forget her and she got depressed... One of her cousins talked to me and I just felt sorry for her and that's why I decided to be friends with her just to make sure she is not sad because I'm ignoring her....

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  • kradmelder

    Don't ever love them. Sleep with them, have children, marry them if you must but don't love them. Woman's love is fickle. One day they 'don't love you anymore'. And their go all the assets you committed in good faith. As the old saying goes, when money stops coming in the front door, love goes out the back door.

    They are programmed like that biologically, like heifers looking for the greenest grass on which to drop their calves. Once they have overgrazed the veld they move on to where they smell rains and fresh grass. that is why 75% of divorces are instigated by women, of the other 25%, many are by men whom women get to instigate it.

    Why worry about this one? What she peddles half the human race has. Their is no shortage of this commodity. You fool yourself with the old 'True Love' lie. That there is only 'the one'. There are plenty. Just focus on those that will add value to your life, are loyal, and will drop strong calves that they will support. Love is not necessary for this. Love dies with you. The calves and their descendants is your DNA living on forever. Why introduce weak DNA into your blood lines for the sake of 'love'?

    Love is idiocy to fool women into stupid choices. Remember, they took a bite of that apple because they fall for such stories. That is why jewish hollywood promotes it. They like to promote all sorts of destructive ideas to whites: love, faggotry, race mixing, communism, liberalism, feminism etc.

    Man up. Love your kids but just respect your wife.

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    • QueenD

      What kind of person are you, If your father hated your mother must your generation also follow suit? You are disgusting, marriage is about love, care, friendship, support and fellowship. if you don't have love then you are satan in human form.

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    • Thunder_Ass

      Excellent real world advice.

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    • mangohango

      Best advice

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  • handsignals

    Pussy Whipped!

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  • RoseIsabella

    https://youtu.be/CQdnn4QZ8Kk

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