Is it normal i don't give girls second chances

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Let me start off saying i am not a social beast and i don't get laid very often. But i still dont tolerate much crap from girls and I am just wondering if I am normal or if I am doing something wrong

For example...

Earlier in the week I matched with a girl on a tinder-like app. We had some chit chat for half an hour, we seemed to like each other, I offered for us to get some coffee... she agreed it was a good idea but then when i suggested we go now, she said can't go now so "how about thursday" i said "maybe" and she said "keep me posted". OK fair enough, cant expect everyone to be available on a moments notice for a stranger

Well thursday rolled around i waited to see if she would message. No message. Then on Friday i sent her a message in the morning seeing what she was doing later. Again, no response

The next morning i get some text from her that says "Sorry i was out... and it was midnight so couldnt get coffee then" I just decided to Unmatch her, basically just delete the whole convo and move on, without even asking her about it.

This happens occasionally, girls get all weird with plans, and flaking out, and not responding...

Is my reaction to this kind of behavior normal, or should I be more "compassionate", patient, and stick around and be understanding that all sorts of things come up and forgive them for seemingly minor issues ?

I just can't stand the bullshit they spin out. I feel like this life already short enough and I only want girls who are serious, direct, loyal and punctual and dont flake or get all iffy at the last minute.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You say you "dont tolerate much crap from girls" but apparently you'll fall to your knees for any guy, is that what you are trying to say?
    It's OK, you can cum out of the closet on here, we won't tell.

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  • victorygin
    8 years ago

    Why were you expecting her to message on thursday? You said You would keep her posted (about a date on thursday).

    So by the time she got the message on friday, she was probably thinking "eh..can't be bothered".

    I agree, don't put up with flakiness.
    I think 2 chances is enough. As in, if you try and arrange a date and they say "I can't, maybe on X day", then before X day you call and they can't - then forget about them.
    But in this example, I think it's your fault too.

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  • LittleGirlGaggedAndRaped
    8 years ago

    Women use the behavior which you describe is a technique to weed out less Alpha men.

    If it's a Tinder like app and your asking her for coffee your a fucking joke. Tinder to a womens subconscious is a hook up app. I use Tinder myself to arrange a fuck at my place.

    Once matched, what are you using Six10 on a dumbass windows phone? Cut the bull shit texting keep it minimal as possible, set up the date and fuck her. If this doesn't happeb within a 24 hour period unmatch. Life is too short.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Maybe i am not good looking enough but I have tried to arrange a fuck many times in past but they do not seem interested. They usually just unmatch quickly. I have had better success making it seem like I want to legitimately date and then basically after a first date I pull back to my place for sex

      How are you arranging a fuck so easily ? What kind of language are you using? If you are going direct I imagine you must be very good looking

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      • NeofelisNebulosa
        8 years ago

        It all depends, are you looking for love or for sex? Women can tell when you're just sniffing around for sex. If we don't want that, we'll drop you.

        I've had bad experiences trying to meet men online. They often flake out in the exact manner you describe. I had one use me for a blowjob and then ditch me. Ever since then I've been very cynical and I've just stopped searching for a partner.

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      • LittleGirlGaggedAndRaped
        8 years ago

        I'm 6'4 white with a cut body and make sure when I take my pics it's always after I've had a fresh quality haircut before I upload them to FB.

        I'm good looking but not arrogant about it. Don't say you're not good looking and feel that way, a woman desires that which she doesn't have in a man. Be confident.

        Alot of the chicks I attract have an inconsistent busy schedule like a nurses and shit so I'll have them come by in the wee early morning hours after their shift. They'll see me on another dating app so it's alot easier that way for them.

        If you want the best advice. I'd recommend googling "roosh v online dating" read a little he'll help you up your game. Highly recommended

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