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Whenever I find a girl I like, it doesn't last long at all. I may think she's attractive or has a cool personality, but it doesn't take long for them to do something that makes me completely lose interest. It seems nobody will ever impress me but I don't think I'm able to romantically love anybody either.
I was actually like that for a while... probably 2 or 3 years.
Some story:
Once I developed a new crush, it was very strong... And, I forgot how having a crush felt like and stuff. This is, like, incredibly strong that it even made me cry a few times. But, the others just only gave me fluffy feelings, and that's it. But this new feeling makes me feel like I'm going to explode... Yeesh...
I feel the same way. The only time I really like someone is when I don't know them, but once I get to know them for who they are...well...I simply lose all interest. What's worse, is, I don't even have to get to know them. I can pretty much judge a book by its cover, so to speak. I've even tried to warn family members about the people they hang around with, but they'd rather give people a chance ~and~ then see that I was right about them. But my family being able to give someone a chance is something I'm envious of -- I've never even considered it before.
But I'm young, I hope that one day I'll be able to give someone a chance and it'll be worth it for me. As for me, I know I can love someone, but is there someone I can love? That's all I wonder.
Interesting that you are similar but seem to have different reasoning than me.
I never feel interested in getting to know people until I already get to know people I like to keep them around.
I do like to hangout with friends a lot but at the end of the day I like to be alone and not bothered.
I will go do something fun with friends but I need time to concentrate on work or personal times and being bothered disrupts me a lot because I don't focus well when I'm interrupted.
I have mixed thoughts on whether I would want another relationship.
Yeah, I totally understand needing to be left alone when you're having your alone time or working or studying. As for me, I want to be left alone almost all the time (that's another reason why I don't have friends). Except when it's my family, of course. I'll always be there for them. Anyway...
Having mixed thoughts has it's ups and downs. The positive being you can give yourself time before rushing into anything that you might regret later -- the negative side being that you might wind up with regrets for waiting too long, and miss out on the perfect mate. It could be that you just haven't met the right woman for you. Or if you're really into your career or studies I can see how you'd lack the desire to be in a relationship.
This is something that I wouldn't worry about too much because you might feel the complete opposite in a year from now. If it's something that just came over you then it may pass over in a few months or years.