Is it normal i do not care about suicidal people anymore

Maybe suicidal people are just trans-dead.

You raise a common issue.

It's very hard - and takes a lot of energy - to care for people who do not care for themselves; and burnout is very common.

While I like to assist people; I also long ago learned there is a limit into how much personal energy and other resources I can put into them - otherwise it drags me down towards their level.

It's a dilemma; and I do understand why you don't care like you used too.

I suggest that you focus on people with lessor issues in life. It's likely you can assist people there. Look for a cause or issue that you support.

I wish you well with this,

If you’re arguing the point with them for hours then they aren’t suicidal, just attention seeking.

People who want to do it will just quietly haul off and do it, usually to everyone’s complete surprise.

Their suicidal tendencies are not your problem, simply tell them to see a shrink/psychologist.

Ouch yes that’s true man. It’s a similar syndrome to people’s false sex crime accusations, they make it harder for actual victims with their bullshit.

It becomes the crying of wolf.

If someone was hanging in front of you would you care?

After thinking about it a lot, i decided that it is the work of natural selection and i should not get involved in the process.

I agree, most of the time they are just whiny and don’t realise how lucky and privileged they actually are. Most of them aren’t even actually suicidal, they just want attention.

I know this sounds cold, but most of them just want attention; not that isn't a serious cry for help, but I think the average successful suicide rate for women of my age group is something like 1/350 compared to 1/4 for 60 year old males. You ever hear a 60 year old man who wants to be talked out of it? Most people who genuinely want to off themselves don't want talking out of it.

I dont know why anyone ever cared. Like ok bruh if life is that bad for you then do it. Realistically though those who actuslly want to do it just do it they don't stop to talk about it. I dont have time for attention seekers

So have I.

That’s what I mean. Usually there aren’t a lot of obvious signs and they don’t sit there and argue about it with people if they’re serious.

As someone who is actively involved in a suicide pact - people who are serious about attempting suicide don’t tell anyone, at least not people they know irl. The last thing an actual suicidal person wants is to be stopped. You’re not their therapist, it’s not your responsibility to talk people out of it. As long as you’re not encouraging anyone to do it you’re not to blame.