Is it normal i dislike the idea of a wedding because i believe its improper?

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I never understood the concept of a wedding. I mean admitting you have a partner to your parents is one thing but being affectionate is another. Many parents would get angry if their childs partner flirts with the child in front of them.

So how is it proper to kiss that partner at a wedding? I just always thought it seemed a little disrespectful to your parents but this is a common custom which I just don't understand.

How is it not okay in point A but it is at point B? Its not as though anything changed? They went from flirting to kissing and than possibly sleeping with. How is flirting wrong but sex and kissing is acceptable?

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Based on 51 votes (17 yes)
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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    You aren't required to use tongue.

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    • charli.m
      9 years ago

      Fingering, on the other hand, is mandatory.

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      • VirgilManly
        9 years ago

        Well that goes without saying.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    There's so much wedding hate...it's getting to be like IIN to like my teacher type of posts.

    It's a normal thing to do because not everyone is not as freaked out by public displays of affection as you. I could tear into this post like a lion sinking its claws into a wounded gazelle, but alas, I am too lazy.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    If your parents get angry when they see you kissing someone you love, you have my condolences, and lousy parents.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    I have a similar issue. If I had a significant other, I wouldn't want my family to know. Extended family would be fine. I really don't want my biological family all up in my personal business. I like my privacy. Showing romantic affection, or affection in general, if front of my bio-family would bother me greatly. I don't like feeling as if personal aspects of my self are up on display. If I got married, they wouldn't be invited. Then again, I might even feel awkward about being affectionate with my SO in front of my extended family.

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  • RegGuy
    9 years ago

    Your parents got upset with you for flirting with that girl/guy again, didn't they.

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  • delling
    9 years ago

    This isn't normal at all. Once you get to be a teenager, you should be over the whole "eww, kissing!" thing. Be a little less sexphobic, eh?

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