Is it normal "i despise the affect her bone structure has on my emotions"

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Is it normal to despise the emotional affect of being physically attracted to a female?

EX: " I despise the affect her bone structure has on my emotions"

I'm not unattractive , I've done some male modeling , and have had no problems finding smart and attractive women for relationships. However I'm not fond of the feeling I have when I see an attractive woman.

It's not like I prefer fat slobs... I think they are gross like most everyone else.

It's more a matter of an irrational urge to have sex with them.

More so... I don't like the power a stranger has on my emotional state.

I don't act on my urges because I'm not a rapist , and I can rationalize why acting on attraction impulses is in no way the right choice.

But.... If I had the remote from click, I'd spend a lot of time on pause having my way with every single one of them just to get it out of my system.

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  • GamerVoice
    7 years ago

    I don't feel guilt , it's more like anger toward being attracted to them because I don't feel they deserve my attraction.

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  • bucketfullofassholes
    7 years ago

    And that's why I don't talk to women, I'd rather stroke my ferret than be emotionally manipulated.

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    • CorruptedSoul
      7 years ago

      Lmao the OP should do this

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  • CorruptedSoul
    7 years ago

    First off.. Why are there random sentences with quotes? Who is sayin that, the girl? You? I'm not following this "question" at all.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Men don't let their emotions and urges take them over. And you haven't, since in your case you haven't acted on them. You complain about attractive women giving you a lack of control, but that's just a silly excuse.

    Your problem is that you feel guilty about having sexual thoughts about beautiful women, when really you shouldn't. You'll be much happier once you get rid of that guilt.

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  • johnpartridge
    7 years ago

    As someone who can't act on his primary sexuality (I'm primarily attracted to girls aged 8-13), I get what it's like to want to be able to switch off the attraction. However, if I had a button, or preferably a dimmer switch, would I press it? I don't know. Surely finding people beautiful is one of life's joys, even if you can't express that in the way you'd like.

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