Is it normal i despise my mother this much

My mother was always neglectful and so was my father. My mother was disgusted of me, said I reminded her of her siblings she hated. While my dad was narssastic and would mock us like a playground yard bully about how he was better and we would never mean shit. When I tried to better myself like get a job or driver license I was told I couldn't because I was a horrible person or I had to be there to cater to my parents whims and take care of them. When I was 15 I was given a pet cat by my mother. I kept that cat for a few years till circumstances made me give him up. My mother promised she keep him and insisted she would and not to look for anyone else. Then said never mind last second and I had to take him to the shelter. That cat was the only thing I ever loved in the world and didn't deserve to be so cruelly discarded. After which my mother didn't let me moarn because it's a worthless stupid animal which she believes are garbage anyways. I pray there is a devil because if there is she'll burn forever and maybe the devil will torture her like she tortured her children who she was suppose to care about.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Yes, she does sound awful! But please, don't waste your prayers hoping that the Devil exists, and Lord knows he ain't your friend. If anything pray for God to give you strength to leave your parents when you are a legal adult. Also you can pray for God to open your mother's heart.

    I do feel really bad for you, because something very similar happened to me about 16 years ago. I had left my then husband for cheating, and had to move across the country to move back in with my parents. I had taken our Himalayan kitten and my ex got our Shetland sheepdog and two rats. Now I wish I would have had the money to take all the animals. Anyways, my mother had promised me that I would have no problems bringing my new kitten to her house, and that I could keep him, his food, litter box and toys all in my room. Well, as soon as I arrived at my folks house I was greeted by my bitchy sister who said, "if the dog's not allowed upstairs, then the cat is not allowed upstairs". Well, apparently there was some stupid rule about the dog and not going upstairs, because of the new carpet. Guess who made the stupid rule? Not my mother, but my sister herself made the stupid rule. My younger sister has always held an enormous pull over my mother so basically my mother broke all of her promises to me in what was probably my greatest hour of need, because it was easier to fuck me over than it was to fight with my controlling sister. I had to keep my precious kitten in the garage, and eventually I was forced to give him up entirely. He was the only good thing I had in my life at the time.

    Occasionally, I will feel somewhat forgiving towards my sister, but it's only because she is a lonely, miserable obsessive compulsive, neat freak germophobe who appears to be getting bitten in the ass by Karma.

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    • Algum

      I'm always glad to see posters that believe in God. On some of the spirit and religion pages of this site, it seems to be flooded with not only athiests, but athiests that are being so rude towards people who believe. I am not saying that I have a problem with athiests because that's everybody's right, I'm saying that I have a problem with athiests who have such a bad attitude towards believers and are so hypocritical. They refuse to deal with anyone discouraging their beliefs, but they feel they have a free ticket to discourage, badger, and ridicule believers into the ground! Am I the only one who sees something wrong with that?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Thanks.

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  • GeekyGold

    Aww man if I could give you a hug I would. You have the right to feel the way you do about her. And don't listen to what they say about you having to crater your parents, f*** them. You deserve to leave that hellhole and find people who will treat you better than your parents did. I know I don't know you but I don't think you deserve to be treated like that. Just have patience and someday you'll be gone and happy.

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  • athem

    From how badly she's treated you, I'd be surprised if you didn't despise her. She sounds like a really horrible person to be around, and I hope you can or have gotten out of this situation with her.

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  • Algum

    Yeh, your mother being so heartless about your cat, that's not right. A dog or cat can be one's best friend and true companion, definitely as a child. And both your parents both neglecting and mocking you, could there be a worse combination? And making you feel worthless. Do they not understand that your childhood years are the most important time to treat you right and with love and encouragement, and which can mold you into the person you'll be the rest of your life? Do not let them mold you the wrong way, you deserve better than that, and you deserve better than what you are getting from them. I'm sure that they understand what they're doing wrong, and that they are too full of themselves to care and they're all about themselves and obviously have a bad attitute about life and are mad at the world. They don't deserve the "they don't know any better" treatment. When people get that treatment, then people will go easier on them, and they do not deserve that! There's no excuse for their behavior and attitude. I only pray that one day they'll realize the error of their ways and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Like I said before, it is up to you to NOT follow their grossly flawed ways. You deserve to be able to mold yourself into a good person and not let them mold you wrong. I know you can do it.

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  • boingberd

    Damn, I have seen a lot of these, and yes, it is a hard thing to go through. I've got beaten up by my sister. She would be horrible things to me. She was 3 years older then me so she thinks she was the boss. She would hit me until I bleed. I've broken 8 bones. I've almost committed suicide from this. I also got bullied in Middle/High school. It was almost worse then my sister, but not so much. Yeah, it's fu**ing painful.

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  • SammyStarts

    Omg. Thats terrible. I wish you the best.

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