Is it normal i compete with my boyfriend's sister without her knowing?

When I first met my boyfriend, he showed me a photo of his family. His sister was definitely about 20 pounds heavier than me and at that time, I was a few pounds overweight. They don't live in my state, only he does.

Then, still not having met her, he told me she was on a strict exercise routine and that she lost 20 pounds. When I saw her photo on FB, I was so upset. I was like I can't meet her yet because I'd now be the same weight as her, I need to be thinner she's gonna think I'm a whale and that I eat the world. I dieted extreme but only lost a pound because of hypothyroidism. :(

THEN still not having met her, he tells me she dropped ANOTHER 20 and is now very thin. I am about to meet her this year and I'm like I have to be thinner than her. So now I have to not only lose 20 but probably another 15 pounds so that I'm noticeably skinny compared to her! I don't want to be the fat cow. I have hypothyroidism and it's tough enough losing weight on the diet I've been on. :( So I keep thinking about how I'll be a whale next to her.

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  • CalciteQueen

    Don't worry about competing with her. It's unlikely your bf's into incest, anyway.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Why do you feel you have to compete with her? She's his sister, he loves her in a completely different way and shouldn't be comparing you two at all.

    The only thing she should be concerned about when you meet is whether you're being a good girlfriend to her brother, not whether you weigh more or less than her. Seriously you're stressing way too much over this.

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    I do the same with my friend, haha. I consider her as a rival, even though she probably doesn't know that.

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  • Light-Yagami

    Don't worry about it; being underweight is actually unhealthy, and you're probably healthier than her as you're a healthy weight, or close to it. As long as your BMI is within the healthy weight range, you don't need to lose more weight regardless of how much other people weigh. Anyone who judges you or compares you to her is just shallow.

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  • I've heard some people resort to swallowing tape worm eggs to lose lots of weight without having to exerciseor diet.

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  • ASS2MOUTH

    Has his sister seen his cock ?
    Has he fucked his sister ?

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  • FJK_frm_AK25

    Do u this nk he's into his sister? I don't understand logic here as to y u even care? Its his fuckin sister!!I mean shit after being on this site iv learned incest I'd more common then I thought, however I'm sure he doesn't fall into that category.

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