Is it normal i compete with my boyfriend's sister without her knowing?
When I first met my boyfriend, he showed me a photo of his family. His sister was definitely about 20 pounds heavier than me and at that time, I was a few pounds overweight. They don't live in my state, only he does.
Then, still not having met her, he told me she was on a strict exercise routine and that she lost 20 pounds. When I saw her photo on FB, I was so upset. I was like I can't meet her yet because I'd now be the same weight as her, I need to be thinner she's gonna think I'm a whale and that I eat the world. I dieted extreme but only lost a pound because of hypothyroidism. :(
THEN still not having met her, he tells me she dropped ANOTHER 20 and is now very thin. I am about to meet her this year and I'm like I have to be thinner than her. So now I have to not only lose 20 but probably another 15 pounds so that I'm noticeably skinny compared to her! I don't want to be the fat cow. I have hypothyroidism and it's tough enough losing weight on the diet I've been on. :( So I keep thinking about how I'll be a whale next to her.