Is it normal i cant keep long term relationships?

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I realized this and this includes any type. Be it friend, family or lover. After awhile I become frustrated and want to leave it. If I have too many relationships at one time I get incredibly overwhelmed. I usually get rejected or kicked out of places so I dont know if I ever found a proper way to stay connected to anyone. When I was young we moved every year so I always had to start over. In person I was always rejected since people just thought I was weird or trade up for someone they thought was cooler. That goes for friends and lovers. Even most of my family rejected me. I just dont think I know how to have lasting relationships.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I think if people expect or demand too much of each other or themselves, they become quickly dissatisfied with each other.
    It's hard to overcome the transience of your youth, but you might get some tips from some on here who were raised as military brats.

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  • Andurlittledog2
    8 years ago

    I do not like being tied down, so it's perfectly normal, many people have many reasons. But long term relationships are not required to have a happy fulfilling life. We are all different.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    Appearing friendly is overated in my humble opinion.Not saying you become a pariah but of importance is true friendship rather than number of 'friends' .I have many 'friends' but only 2 real long time friends.So if you cant keep long term relationships that is no problem as long as you know there is that 1 or 2 persons that you actualy care about and they care about you.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    I would need to know you personally . Is it possible , you don't let people close enough to connect because of all that moving ? Maybe your inner self is putting a guard up because it was so use to moving around , you never felt like it was worth making long term relationships . I am just taking a guess but , like I said , I would need to know you more .

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  • LuxM4G
    8 years ago

    Try working on your social bonds with people, sometimes the problem might not be on your end.

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