Is it normal i cant figure out what to class myself sexually?

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I kind of tired of people not understanding NO. When you say "Straight" people assume you are free game to everyone of the other sex. When you say "gay" you are free game to everyone of the same sex.

I would like a word that just says "I dont want sex, I dont want to date you, I dont want to hold your hand, and you cant convince me to date you, I am done". I thought asexual meant that and a lot of people classify asexual as a person who might masturbate and watch porn but does not want to be romantic or sexual with other people.

They are just happy being alone. However there are people saying "No Asexual are romantic too". So does liking romance novels and porn count as romantic? What would you classify this as?

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    What you described sounds most like asexual but as like all things sexual there is a continuum. Take straight ppl for example some just want plain vanilla missionary position sex and others go off into BDSM or other fetishistic behaviors. So as a asexual you can enjoy or not enjoy romance novels or porn and still be asexual meaning not really interested in having sex with anyone. I'd say I'm asexual at least half the time and bi the rest of the time but even when I'm feeling sexual my interest in guys and girls isn't 50/50 it almost always leans more 1 way than the other.

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    • Cigsznass
      7 years ago

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      So you dont think people who are interested in a relationship can really say they are JUST asexual?

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        I think it would depend on the type of relationship. But honestly I only use the labels as a convenience to other ppl that think everything needs a name I'm completely fluid in my sexuality and what I want 1 day may not be the same the next. I don't keep myself in a perfect little box I'm messy and all over the place and it works for me others might need the structure of a label but I don't.

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago

          Oh good on you mysistershadow! I hate those little boxes too.

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          • mysistersshadow
            7 years ago

            I guess it makes it easy for others to understand but anyone I've ever known really well didn't fit into the strict binary gender roles or accepted types of sexuality.

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            • Ellenna
              7 years ago

              Sounds as if you mix in similar circles to mine, where most people don't give a stuff about other people's sexuality - let's face it, other things are just as important

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  • username1024
    7 years ago

    You're just you. If its this hard for you to 'classify' yourself then, you're not supposed to 'classify' yourself. At least not now. Just live your life safely and enjoy your ride. If people are rude about your preferences and refuse to accept you reasoning it will only speed up the process to finding your real friends and loved ones!

    By the way, you don't have to explain yourself to anyone who doesn't respect your life choices!

    Good Luck!

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I've always thought of asexual as basically not into things of a sexual nature.

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  • bucketfullofbuttholes
    7 years ago

    I had a friend who said she was asexual in high school, she's now a slut.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Meaning she's getting lots more sex than you are or more than you approve of?

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      • bucketfullofbuttholes
        7 years ago

        It's just a term, no need to get offended.

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago

          "Just a term" that insults women who are sexually active more than you think is appropriate, which is none of your business

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          • bucketfullofbuttholes
            7 years ago

            I don't really care.

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            • Ellenna
              7 years ago

              You seem a bit retarded, you poor thing, so please stop replying to all my posts and do have a nice day at the sheltered workshop

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  • lexistansyoongi
    2 years ago

    You could be asexual and aromatic all in one

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  • longandthick45
    7 years ago

    if your happy watching porn and masturbating I say go for it. You do what makes you happy. Nobody knows you better than you. I love porn and I love to masturbate,but only when I cannot get laid.

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  • flwrswhisperingnthenight
    7 years ago

    This isn't normal...sorry. It's kinda weird but I'm not judging...whatever floats your boat...I think?

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