Is it normal i cant bring myself to have flings with women because of guilt?

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I am not your greatest catch in terms of looks, but I dont have issues with girls in terms of courting them. Some have said I look very trustworthy which is bizarre because I can be such a big liar. The only problem is: there are times when I dont want a relationship (like now) and just a fling would be ideal. But because I have a big and annoying conscience, I cant bring myself to date a girl just to sleep with her and then be on my way, leaving her in tatters. Ugh

I think my last "relationship" definitely has a lot to do with this. Where me and a girl both agreed it was casual and temporary [she even wrote me a card saying she knows I will walk away eventually therefore she will enjoy the time we spend together(!)] but then she wanted me to act more committed and forever-ly even after making that claim. Needless to say that ended sort of poorly

What's worse? The kind of girls I am naturally attracted to are the good-girl types.

Result of this conundrum? I am single and unsexified.

IIN?

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    U should have know with that girl. The term 'you will walk away' implies that she wants to stay. It's difficult to find a girl that's just interested in a fling that can genuinely separate her heart from her vag. But when you do your conscience won't hinder you because you can be completely upfront and honest about your intensions. You say that shit to the average woman, not only do u not get laid, all her friends look at u like hitler from that point on lol.

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  • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
    9 years ago

    Then why don't you find a Frau who is also interested in just a fling only?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Probably wont be attracted to her in the first place lol

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