Is it normal i can't decide who to be with?

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So, I'm 31 now, and set in most things I do. But there is this, I'm a bisexual male, and I STILL can't figure out which sex to pursue. I think I like women a bit more sexually, but I like cute males more romantically. I mean, I guess I'm cool with neither, but still... whenever I date someone I seem to get tired of them VERY easy (I'm super experimental, and I like doing crazy stuff sexually, like public sex, etc).

Another thing is this, the "type" of guy I'm physically attracted to is very rare, but I often see women I'm attracted too...

So...fml

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    I would STRONGLY suggest that you just be promiscuous and avoid exclusivity and commitment for the time being.

    You sound similar to me, liking sexual novelty and not sure what your type is. Just explore the big sexy world safely and decide later. Or maybe someone will really catch your attention.

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  • Clunk42
    4 years ago

    Of course. Another person claiming that gender makes a difference between romantic and sexual attraction. A sexual attraction is wanting sex with someone, but a romantic attraction is wanting an actual relationship with someone, while still having sexual attraction. Wanting a relationship with someone is not gender-locked. If you haven't met the right person, then you haven't met the right person. Whether you're interested in romancing someone or not has to do with personality, not gender. Though gender often affects personality, it's not the one determining factor. (Thanks doesnormalmatter for the great definition of "romantic attraction". You did a better job putting it into words than I could have.)

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Awwww man you brought a tear to my eyes

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  • CDmale4fem
    4 years ago

    Sounds like it's time to be without both of them. Then see what your heart longs for. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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  • cupcake_wants
    4 years ago

    well, dude, live and learn. Just be honest with the women you date that you like men too. You'll find the one for you. If you did settle down, would you give up on the other gender? I mean, let's say if you found the right girl, would you give up on being with men for her?

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    • rocketdave
      4 years ago

      Would you give him up for her?

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  • rocketdave
    4 years ago

    I've had much the same problem but now I'm older (70) and I live with a ladyboy so get the best of both worlds.

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    • cupcake_wants
      4 years ago

      Interesting, rocketman, didn't know you were into Ladyboys.. lol

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      • rocketdave
        4 years ago

        I'm into all people!

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