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Its unbelievably easy to score dates. Most people I meet find me charming. However most of those people if you date them will leave within a few months. Am I doing something wrong? Am I just fantastic at first impressions and let them down later?
Being a good conversationalist, having a good sense of humor and being a kind person will certainly help keep someone around, but being a really good lover will keep that same someone around as long as you like, maybe even too long.
Well we never seem to get to that part as they dont seem to stick around very long. Whats odd is usually the relationship is going fine its not like we ever fight and one day they just suddenly decide to leave. When I ask what was wrong they tell me nothing they just felt like finding a new partner. There was one partner I was with two years and I wanted to go to the next level but they were not interested and at that point I started to lose interest. I am a good conversationalist and have a good sense of humor and am extremely attentive. I am actually very easy going most of the time but I am very protective when someone hurts those I care about.
Perhaps you might want to be a bit more active in perusing a deeper relationship. Most girls don't want to be the one pushing a relationship to the next level, even if they want it to go there.
Obviously, I can't really say too much as I don't know you or how you act around women, but remember, girls want and need the same things we guys do, they would just prefer it if it wasn't thought of as their idea.
What do you mean pursuing a deeper relationship? Sex is the last thing I take priority in during a relationship. Its not like I am a bad person but it just seems everyone ends up leaving. Like everyone thinks they can do so much better than they get dumped by someone else and come crawling back to me. I try to be good to people but they dont care but somehow this attitude always gets them to walk into the front door it just never keeps anyone. Its kind of depressing since I not really sure why I attract people I just do. People say how sweet and helpful and considerate I am and so they want to date me but they always end up leaving after an amount of time. Am I doing something wrong?
All I'm saying is that girls like sex, too. They don't have to be sluts to have desires. Perhaps you move too slow.
Not really I just dont jump to sex the first week. I dont see why anyone would be having sex after a month. You barely know the person. That is only 4 weeks. You are basically saying sleep with every person I date after a week. If I wanted to screw them that quickly it would be simpler just going to a random bar not dating someone.