Is it normal i can get aroused by a hot guy but romantically only fall for girls?

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23f and Im rather confused with my sexuality still....I can get off by seeing or visualising a nice looking cock, however in rl im attracted to women.
I only get butterflies with certain girls as I tend to crush easily on a cute, funny pretty girl.
I know im emotionally more connected with woman. I know this because I have few good guy mates but dont get emotionally invested in the friendship like i do with some of my female friends. If I were to be in a relationship, I feel more connected & attracted to a female as I love hugging a female figure and they can be so sweet. Am I Bi or gay ?

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  • llamalover
    6 years ago

    Bi curious maybe?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    I'm not a guy you idiot

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    • kelliekelliekellie
      6 years ago

      well maybe you should precise that, we're not supposed to know what gender you are. Also, I'd say you're a lesbian. Lesbians can totally get aroused by men but it's all about being emotionally connected to women, sex is just something they use to satisfy their sexual cravings (i.e. using a man). If you're emotionally connected to a woman, sex will follow, so I'd say you're a lesbian.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        6 years ago

        Ah okay thanks for this :)

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    It's normal. I'm the same way

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  • pyralspiteful
    6 years ago

    Bicurious, or maybe homoromantic bisexual?

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  • thehalfgoodgirl
    5 years ago

    So you like buttholes? A girl has a butthole and they smell likes a guys but a vagina is different if you do not like then you could be gay you can’t be straight maybe you’re bi

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    the only thing not normal is you can't make up your mind. you want strangers to decide for you? thats creepy as well. you havent tried sex with either probably because neither sex has offered you anything. your question should be how come no one wants to screw me?

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Why does it matter what you are labeled. It seems like you know what you like so enjoy it.

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