Is it normal i bcame a mother after 40 am comfortable with it but people aren't

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I am an old mom of a cute little girl. I am good health just older . She is in grade school and I like my life and my husband.The pregnancy was a little rough but otherwise I enjoy being a mom but other people have a problem with me being an older mom and have said so.ALOT. I never thought I would have kids or a nice husband again, my older daughter died years ago when she was 3. Her father was a very abusive man.The man I am married to know is a good guy. I am happy. What is the problem?

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    The people with a problem with that are idiots. Why should it be any of their concern.

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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    Lady, you are awesome. Don't worry about the opinions of the nay-sayers.
    I feel like we should share a bro-punch..

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    My wife is 42 years my junior. We are extremely happy together and are very well suited to one another. We have been together some years now and spend very little time apart. Most of our time together is on a very small boat, which proves that we get along very well. Like you, we get a lot of flack, especially from Americans.
    I don't understand why they think our relationship is any of their business or why they think we give a damn what they think. But for some reason they do, on both fronts.
    So, you know what? Just do as we do and ignore the ignorant assholes and let them suffer their small minded existences, while we live our lives to the fullest.
    Good on ya MOM!

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  • ImjustJeff
    9 years ago

    I am terribly sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. I can't imagine how difficult that had to have been. I'm glad you were able to get out of your abusive relationship, many women...don't.

    Do people really have the gall to actually say something about you being an older mom? If you, your husband, and your child are happy, than &$@! what other people think or think or say!!! It's none of their business anyway.

    Next person that says something, mention the loss of your first daughter and watch them squirm, stammer, and drop their head in shame for even mentioning it.

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