Is it normal i avoid conversation because i think i'm too boring to talk to?

I often find myself in this predicament in social, phone and live chat settings. I just feel like my personality is too weird, and I am too boring, to subject people to talking to me.

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Based on 40 votes (35 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella

    What's so weird and boring about you, sugar? Weird people aren't generally boring.☆
    :-)

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    • I gave this a thumbs up because I like being called sugar. :). Anyways, I suppose its just a negative self image. I concede that the coordination of the terms may not make that much sense.

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  • Asstastics

    People think that I am boring because I like math and science. I made a connection with JD777 here on IIN. He sort of thought like me. But, he gave up and left the site. I've been a lost soul ever since.

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  • Nobodyknowss!

    I feel the same way !! Nice to not be alone !

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  • howaminotmyself

    I really don't have this problem. I think I'm pretty fascinating. Although I'm probably not, I just dont let that stop me.

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    • I think you're in the more normal state. I'd like to have that confidence.

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  • Ace9

    I honestly have no idea how ur personality is, but some ppl have this special ability to just make the most interesting topics boring! But they're usually not weird so I dunno wtf ur talking about, sugar.

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  • umph

    This post is so boring... Umph!

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    • Ace9

      Hmm... Umph.... is that a word or a sound?

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      • umph

        Lol! A silly intejection (a sound).

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        • Ace9

          :)

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I feel the same way. At this point I try to remedy this by letting the other person ramble on about themselves.

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    • MogsyLovesRap

      lol. xD

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  • Arm0se

    Same boat. People keep telling me I have interesting things to say, but I don't really know if I believe them. That's partly why I don't talk to people unless they talk to me first :/

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    • Exactly. Welcome to the boat. I think that its part of my depression for me.

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  • fordtruckman2001

    Try harder to communicate with people like the poster abouve me said your not giving yourself credit.

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    • Thanks.

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  • Cymbalism

    I feel this way a lot. But you're probably more interesting than you give yourself credit for. Just start by taking an interest in the other person, and keep the subject on them or whatever they're talking about.

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    • I do try to just talk about the other person, but it makes me nod off hearing ad nauseum about others' minutiae.

      I may be interesting, but I just don't feel that way.

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