Is it normal i asked my girlfriend to kick my balls?

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i told her about my fetish i have called ballbusting where guys get hit in the balls and it turns them on, so i asked her to wear some pretty shoes and kick me down there. but she was nervous and didnt want to do it, even after i said it was a turn on. she didnt agree to do it barefoot or touch them with her fingers either. she doesnt even touch my balls at all because shes scared about hurting me. but getting hit or slapped down there gives me an adrenaline rush and its exciting. i told her she could go slow and be gentle and that i would tell her right away if i was starting to feel any pain at all. so we could be completely safe. but she wont do it.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    ouch :c

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Normal you want her to do it, also normal that she doesn't want to. If you're pressuring her about it, stop doing that right now because that leads nowhere good: she'll either do it to shut you up and resent you later on or she'll find someone who doesn't try and get her to do things that turn her off.

    Grow up: most of the time in the real world none of us get everything we want from any given relationship

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      it's not that she is turned off by it but she is scared of hurting me. I mean I respect that she loves me and everything but I want to try something new, just to experiment. She isn't open minded about any of this and that is weird to me. I sacrifice my happiness all the time for her. I've gone down on her in the past several times even when she didn't smell the best down there. I'm having trouble understanding her hesitation. We always made it clear that communication is of the utmost importance to us and we would let each other know when we didn't feel right about something, and that includes whenever any activity we engaged in started to make us feel uncomfortable.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Can't you see that's exactly what she is doing - communicating clearly that she doesn't want to do it. You're playing with words here: if she's scared of hurting you then she is turned off by the idea of doing it.

        If you choose to "sacrifice your happiness" for her that doesn't mean she has to do the same.

        If it's so important to you, try hitting yourself on the balls when you're having sex with her: if her reluctance is only about hurting you that may convince her it's OK. Other than that, either drop the whole thing or get out of the relationship if one sex act is so hugely important to you.

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      • theseeker
        8 years ago

        Child, PLEASE...You're either insane or playing games. I don't believe you when you say it gives you an adrenaline rush. This is frivolous and not normal at all.

        I'll tell you how this works: she kicks you in the balls and it hurts. At that point, it's gonna be too late for you to tell her if it hurts. You're going to get a huge stomachache, which will make her feel guilty because she hurt you. Is that what you want? You want to make her feel bad? That's inevitably what will happen. She recognizes this, but you're too simple minded to understand it, apparently.

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  • dick555
    8 years ago

    Some guys like to get their balls busted. It can be a real turn-on as you stated. I like to get my cock slapped. Your gf should do what you ask of her if she wants to please you sexually. You might show her some videos of guys getting ball busted with a hard-on. That would show her that guys are turned on by having their balls kicked and cock slapped.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      Why should she do anything she doesn't want to do?

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      • dick555
        8 years ago

        She doesn't have to do anything. That may not fair well for the relationship. Maybe the best for the two of them if she isn't willing to please him.

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          The alternative is that he could please her by not hassling her to do something she doesn't want to do

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          • dick555
            8 years ago

            But if it something he wants, needs, and desires, how will he meet this if she doesn't do it. His only options are to get a third person involved or find someone who will kick him in the balls and slap his cock.

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            • Ellenna
              8 years ago

              There's a third alternative, that he respect her wishes to not do what she doesn't enjoy and of course, that should be reciprocal. What sort of a relationship is it when someone insists the other party do something they don't want to do?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      yes it's a bit extreme and not to everyone's taste, and it's not like I would ask for anything like this every day, just on occasion. Balls symbolize masculinity through testosterone but at the same time they are so vulnerable. I think that's what appeals to me. I know there is a lot of hardcore stuff out there, and although some of it turns me on, I would never actually have a girl do that to me in real life for fear of a medical emergency or permanent damage. I just want to experience a little bit of what it feels like without putting myself in danger.

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      • dick555
        8 years ago

        If you keep things under control, you can have a great time doing a lot of stuff like having your balls busted and your cock slapped. Your cock can be slapped fairly hard with damage. Hope you get to enjoy what you want.

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  • rayb12
    8 years ago

    She's clearly uninterested and she has every right to be. That being said, she is in the minority and most women are open to it. But if I were you I would leave this one alone, as I would feel uncomfortable being pressured to do something sexual that I have no interest in

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  • Spider-Man
    8 years ago

    in the old days before iphones and flirting with hundreds of guys all day long was common this used to be cute

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  • randypete
    8 years ago

    i am sure ther are a lot of people who would kick you in the balls if you asked hard you enjoy

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  • TheWrinklySailor
    8 years ago

    : O

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  • NegativeGamer444
    8 years ago

    this is only fun if shes not flirting with several other guys all day long on kik. they all cheat and masterbate to different guys and flirt and theyre airheads.

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