Is it normal i am asexual and love romance

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I cant really connect to people in a sexual manner. I have absolutely no drive and kind of had a hard time even during puberty. I do however love romance and have a ton of gay fanfics, porn, and gay romance stuff all over my computer. I cant feel anything when I date people though and I find that fact kind of sad but that just how everything seems to be. I do date on occasion but its usually to feed my ego or help my reputation and status. Otherwise its utterly meaningless. I dont even masturbate as I get no sensation from it.

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  • heartbreakhotel
    7 years ago

    a lot of asexual people feel romantic attraction and no sexual attraction. You're perfectly normal. Romantic attraction and sexual attraction are two different things

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I didnt say I felt romantic attraction. I said I like romantic stories and fiction. There's a big difference there.

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    • SuckMeCock
      4 years ago

      Yep I'd agree on that

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  • maskofsanity
    7 years ago

    You probably just have low testosterone. If it becomes an issue you can just talk to your doctor about it.

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  • misslonglegs
    7 years ago

    Sounds like lose of libido you might be better if you see a doctor

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    • KeddersPrincess
      7 years ago

      But what about asexuals who are very much aroused by fetish just not sex and people. How would you explain those people?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Wouldn't that mean I wouldn't be reading sexual material either?

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  • Otksockboy20
    7 years ago

    I get that too, I date my gf for romance not that sexual drive stuff, I have never masterbated, so iin that I love my gf for personality not sexual drive as lots of people do? So to the writer I have a similar situation to you

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I dont date no, I have no desire to do so.

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      • Otksockboy20
        7 years ago

        I know, I just have like this thing where apparently people actually want to have sex and stuff and I'm here like wut? Y u want to have sex? I don't have a care for anything sexual. Just so you know there's a difference between a total ace, a asexual and a aromatic

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  • Evansman7
    7 years ago

    Or look my name up sweetie can see yours, or my number is 830-265-0156

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  • Evansman7
    7 years ago

    I dunno by some anal toys , do just off the norm things like wear a toys in you and go into public or to work, put a dildo in your ass in traffic while your driving and dont try real hard not to let people see you, stuff like that helps me..ugh anything

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