Is it normal i always have the urge to check my boyfriends internet history?

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Always when my boyfriend is gone for a few minutes, I HAVE TO ckeck his internet history to see if he watched porn. I know he does tht, a lot!!! He doesn't keep it a secret for me, but I still have the urge to check it behind hi back... Is this normal?

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  • NotStrangeBird
    11 years ago

    What I got from your descriptionis that you're insecure and sneaky, and he's a lazy idiot.

    You should get married immediately!!!

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  • Dread-pool
    8 years ago

    why are you so suspicious he's watching butt fucking?

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  • capcrunch6
    11 years ago

    I have a habit of clearing my history every time after i'm done using the computer.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    11 years ago

    and does it bother you if he has?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    My GF checks mine all the time too.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    You don't HAVE to snoop.
    You CHOOSE to snoop.

    If you really want to handle this like an adult, communicate with him. I don't mean "beat him up over not paying attention to you" but actually talk to him and LISTEN to what he has to say too.

    If your answer is to just snoop and violate his privacy then... you lose ANY right to complain about what you find. If he turns against you or gets mad at you for this... you will have earned his distrust.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    What do you expect to find? He says he does it so you're not exactly catching him in a lie.

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    • PrettyLies
      11 years ago

      I think I'm trying to find a reason why he never shows attention to me anymore or something.. It doesn't feel like he's attracted to me anymore. And also wen we talk online, I have to wait 15 min for a siple reply like yes or no, and last week I saw he watches porn all the time during our online conversations. So not watching IF whe watches porn, but more WHEN. He's in the middle of his examens and he doesn't even study because watching porn and playing games are all he does! He failed all his exams last year and I'm just worried about him a lot.

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      • IrishPotato
        11 years ago

        Alright. First off, it's not normal to snoop. Really.

        It' bad, it's really bad. You show that you don't trust him and if he finds out, he'll probably be pissed. I know I would.

        You're worried though, I can understand that. You wanted to know what he was doing instead of studying and talking to you, and you do. So there's no need to look anymore, is there?
        Just stop it. You found out what you wanted, end of story.

        Confront him about his exams though, and the games.
        Like, don't get mad. But sit down at a proper time with him, look him in the eyes, and tell him you're worried about him. Then see how he responds.

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      • dappled
        11 years ago

        Ahh, well, I guess that makes sense. It doesn't sound like a great situation you're in there. :/

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