Is it normal i always end up w guys w hidden egos?

For some reason, I always end up dating guys who are quietly proud of themselves. They have egos but don't really brag about it all the time but when they do, they think they are the best. Its pretty fucken annoying. Or all guys somewhat proud of themselves? I know a mans purpose in life is to make it meaningful and make something out of it which is why I do tend to go for guys who do have goals and are confident, its attractive and nice. But somehow it backfires and eventually they just can't shut up about who they are. I'm also a female with goals and ambition which probably attracts those type of men.

My last bf was full of it lol my family noticed it and I would see through it but it would get annoying which also pushed me more to break it off w him. He just wasn't humble on top of other stuff. My bf now, he's a little more humble than my ex yet does have a few things to brag about because he is actually a hard worker unlike my ex. But there are moments where he can be full of it and thinks he is the best and deserves the best which makes me feel like shit and good at the same time cause that means I must have something really valuable for him to be w me but I sometimes feel not good enough for him. Rather tho than dwelling on feeling worthless with him like before, I just wanna tell him to shut up and move on. I like learning from him but he chooses not to learn from me but he's still with me because...idk why.

He knows I support and love him but I feel like its not reciprocated and making me more sick of him bragging. I can't forget when he finally met my family and just talked about what he wants to do in life blah blah blah like can you say a joke or something? Its nice but not for the whole damn conversation. My family was like what time is it? I love him but he needs to tone it down and if he does care about me, he needs to support me back too.