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I have a mate who is straight, I find him really hot and when ever he snapchats me I end up solid. I’m just looking for peoples opinions on this and to see if it’s normalish
He likes the power imbalance that you are aroused and he isn’t.
He’s also likely leading you on because he is insecure and craves attention, in the same way insecure girls post “thirst traps” on Instagram.
You say you find him hot, so being sexually aroused when talking to him is normal.
You don't say if you consider yourself straight or gay. I'm a straight guy, I've never considered any guy hot and I've never been sexually aroused by talking to another guy, but I'm willing to believe that the "gay only for him" thing is real.
Oh... I’m gay 😂 he’s isn’t.... but he does ned me snaps of his crotch with captions like “ hey what you upto” which I find terribly confusing
So he's a tease.
People who do that shit are pathetic, immature and really just looking to gratify their ego by demonstrating their power over someone else.
If you're okay with playing along with the game and you don't mind or even enjoy feeling frustrated when all he's doing is laughing at you, that's fine, but you shouldn't expect anything to ever happen. Personally, I'd be reconsidering just what sort of friend he is, but it's your call.