Is it normal i’m a woman but if i were born male i wouldn’t want to transition
Before I begin please note that I support trans people and by saying I wouldn’t feel the same as them I am not implying that their feelings or experiences are invalid.
So I’m a woman and despite never being über feminine I’ve always been ok with that. I don’t feel a burning desire to be male, I don’t look in the mirror and long for stubble and a masculine jaw.
However I’ve recently been watching a lot of trans youtubers, some of them women who were born male and begun to think that if I were born male I would have just been ok with it. I don’t think I would have cried when my parents dressed me as a boy or called me a boy name.
I feel like although I don’t mind being a woman I’m not particularly attached to my “female identity” and if I were male I would feel similarly indifferent to my “male identity”. I wouldn’t feel better as a man but I also wouldn’t crave smooth cheeks and a feminine jaw.
I honestly feel like I could have been socially conditioned to be either gender. I dont think I would have felt a need to transition and would just have gone along with it and been a slightly feminine man instead of a slightly masculine woman.
Does anyone here feel the same? If you had been born the opposite sex how do you think you would feel?