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My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time on Tuesday. I had sex before but not going to go into details, he wanted to do it from behind? I don't want to, that is what low class people do Right? He said everyone does it but I don't believe him.
"From behind" could mean vaginal sex in the doggy position, or penetrative anal sex.
Whichever he was talking about, I find your opinion that only "low class" people do either of those things strange.
If you're reluctant to try doggy position, you're possibly missing out on something you could enjoy. Many women really like the sensations that position produces.
If you don't want to try anal sex with him, then tell him no. He should respect that, regardless of what he thinks "everyone" does (by which, he probably means all the porn actors he's seen doing it). In any case, considering you've only just had sex with him for the first time, it would be a good idea for you two to spend some time thoroughly exploring the possibilities of vaginal, oral and manual sex before you move on to the more advanced stuff. One thing is certain: if you don't trust him completely and if you're not able to relax, anal sex is probably not going to be fun for you. And, yeah, some women do enjoy it very much.
Vaginal penetration from behind allows for deeper thrusts and overall penetration. You might find this extremely sensational. Additionally, there is also nothing wrong with anal sex either. None of these actions are a "lower class" sex act. If done right, anal sex is also very very pleasurable. Give it a try!
normal, common & completely your decision. i wouldn't classify it as 'low class' though... that's a pretty generalized thing to say
The purpose of Doggy is for that booty smack. If you enjoy getting your ass plundered, and your hips groped, then this is the position for you. Especially if you enjoy the feeling of being pulled in for his full horny thrust. This position allows the cockhandler to fully penetrate with his maximum lust. It's also good for both of you because your booty acts as a cushion, so it'll relieve soreness from just thrashing your pussy from the front when your hips collide. Plus, your vagina has different spots where the cock's curve will please you based off the trajectory. You could possibly find your new sweet spot. Bonus tip: the feeling of the cock head barely almost leaving your vag and then going back in is wondrous. (If you're curious about anal, you should train with "lady finger dildos" because dicks expand in tighter spots.)
Totally normal for vaginal penetrayion from behind while you are in "doggy" position. You'll get hit in new spots and you'll say Wow!
Not every woman likes anal but if you get around to trying it be sure he lubes you up good and gently inserts one finger at a time in there and moves around until it's "loose". Then with him fully lubed he should enter you slowly. The best way is for him to put his penis to your back door and push gently with increasing pressure while you relax and push a little bit like you're having a dump to open the anus. Have fun!
Yes it's totally normal. It's not reserved to a category of people either, at least I never heard such things.
Tho, if you don't want to it's your choice and he shall respect it. I would suggest trying, just for curiosity sake. Some like it some other don't. If you are part of the don't, at least you will know it. If you plan on trying, don't forget the lube, it's really important for both of you to enjoy. Have fun and stay safe !