Is it normal he wants me to stick my finger up his butt?

Anal stimulation is normal for both sexes butt all have a fear of accepting it being so: It is not a gay preference no more then men and women who say their straight: The human creature is strange and wonderful: Liking one's body and how it fuctions is most normal and natural: This could be taboo since with most since they way we learned about sex as a child and adolecent: Let's face ith many parents could not speak about the beautiful natural act to form something beautiful as a child as if it was out of the ordinary or their child would not like such natural conversation about their birth or their bodies: Again asking someone to finger their butt is something special in the act of love so respecting and valueing someone comes into it: I would not say it is normal for someone just to ask for it in having sex: I would say in building a trust in friendship respect comes into it: like a spanking gives a stimulation to some so does a finger up the bottom do as well

It's normal for a guy to enjoy it, it's just a lot of them wouldn't try or if they have won't admit it.

It probably has more to do with him liking the feeling of his prostate being stimulated than sexual preference.

Look up prostate stimulation, milking the prostate. A guy in touch with his sexuality will tell you if you get a woman or guy for that matter that isn't afraid to do it it is the most amazing feeling..

There are too many guys that are afraid of trying anal with a women simply because they do not want to be seen as gay. Which means there somehow more feminine than the average man and thus less to society's standards. It's all fucked up.

But yes its normal. I've met so many guys that enjoy pegging and/or being fingered and it's such a nice feeling dominating them. ;)

i want wife to it feels good

if you are still with him....try getting a small dildo or butt plug ...experiment...sure you can reach a compromise

absolutely normal, most won't admit it publicly

my wife loves it if I do it to her when we are doing 69

it is normal press his prostate make him cum

I do this to my wife all the time at first she didn't want it at all but I got her to try it and every time we have sex it always happens I stick my fingures up her butt and oh does she love it, it always feels great it's amazing I always do the same to myself it always feels good I would recommend trying it sounds sick but once you've tried it you'll know what I mean

Normal! It's amazing to get and receive!
If you think it's a bit too much for you, put a condom on your finger and if that's too much ask him to buy a toy you can use on him.

Been there and done that and at times it can be mind blowing while having your partner stick her finger(s) where the moon doesn't shine while she is orally taking care of you. And don't be to gentle especially when he starts to cum. He'll love you forever. It took a lot of trust with me before I could open up to my partner hoping she wouldn't think I was gay as the 3 dollar bill.

Really it's up to you if you prefer not to do it don't only problem with things like this is he may think your feelings are fleeting.

Its funny how these things work a friend of mine did everything sexual his girlfriend asked for no matter how strange it might have seemed to him but she wouldn't do the same. Apparently all he wanted to do was ejaculate on her under garments while she was still in them. She said no repeatedly they grew apart and he went to someone who would let him do what he wanted. Funny thing is she never found a boyfriend that would do the things he'd do and she tried to get back with him many times but he is now happily married.

So yeah but no?

Actually most guys like it, but would never admit it or ask the girl to do it. Scared they will be called gay. When a guy cums his butt hole squeezes TIGHT! And to have something in it is an amazing feeling. Again, most guys won't admit or try it because they don't want to be called gay.

Sure - anal stimulation for guys can be pleasurable. Nothing to do with sexual preference. Prostate stimulation is a thing, although I'm inclined to believe it's actually the internal portion of the penis being stimulated that feels good, but that's just a theory. Some guys find it adds to the overall amount of pleasure during sexual activity.

Obviously if you don't fancy doing it, you're not in any way obliged to. Everyone has boundaries and preferences. But it's pretty common amongst the more sexual adventurous, so him asking isn't that shocking (although he must have a lot of confidence to do so :P)