Is it normal he wanted me to sleep with other men for his arousal

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My boyfriend of one year wanted me to meet guys and actually have sex with them, he used to say you have no idea just how much it would turn me on.. You have sex or maybe give him a bj then take pics and send them to me vids as well as well. He was serious!!! And I obviously told him NO. Our whole sexting routine switched it was no longer about the two of us but about me and some and guy and him getting the thriils.

I was left with concerns, fetish or not. Did he really love me? or care about me as his girl?. This made me feel not valued. As a guy would you want your girlfriend to actually go though with it ? I tried fantasy and role play but it wasn't enough.

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Based on 35 votes (16 yes)
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  • mikhaildb
    7 years ago

    I mean, it's not "normal" per se, but it's not super weird. I personally wouldn't want that.

    It's a fetish and there's a name for it. And it's a pretty common fetish too, if I recall correctly.

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  • Digsbie
    7 years ago

    I would not want my wife or girlfriend to do this. Might be okay for some but not for me. Good for you for standing your ground

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  • _Jesus_
    7 years ago

    Teach him a lesson. Catch chlamydia and give it to him. You two will look back on this in 20 years from now and just laugh and laugh

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  • domv69lv
    7 years ago

    He isn't gay or bi, idiot. I love my wife dearly. I want her to love only me. I also would love to see her fuck and suck a stranger that she never wants to see again. I would love to see her get off. Not show any love for him, just show her inner slut. he could love you. I love mine. its hard to bring up without sounding like you don't care about her. I joked about it and we talked about it. maybe some day but for now its just fantasy. I do love her. don't let people speak for someone they don't know . everyone is different. You should be able to tell if he loves you by the way he treats you. the bedroom is just the bedroom. as long as he is not just about that one thing, what you do is your business. consenting adults.

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  • Tammy2tone
    7 years ago

    More than likely he is gay or bi.

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  • dick555
    7 years ago

    Many couple swing with other couples or have another guy service his gf or wife. Men like to know that his woman is attractive to other men. Watching her have sex with another man is one way to confirm this. Whatever you do, enjoy it.

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  • lundi
    7 years ago

    This really disgusts me 200%. He doesn't deserve you!

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  • NeilYounger
    7 years ago

    He's a freak. Some men (and women) are like that. The Brits have an old saying for what he likes: he likes a "buttered bun". Think about that old term for a moment will you? Is that what you want to be? He is simply letting you know what turns him on. So why blame him? It's you who make the final decision whether to continue to see him or not. So, decide.

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  • Fall_leaves
    7 years ago

    He views you as a sex object.

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