Is it normal he says he wants something serious yet doesn't get a move on?

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I've been going out with a guy for the past months and he really seemed interested in me, and he kept telling me he was only interested in me and he wanted a serious relationship. He kept saying things like: "when we're boyfriend and girlfriend you'll meet my parents", "we'll make such a great couple", "I hate guys that play with other girls". We've shared intimacy and lots of things.

For the last weeks he's been always busy, ignoring me, being online and not answering my messages, cancelling plans... I don't know what to think. What do you think? Is this normal? What may be happening and what should I do?

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29% Normal
Based on 7 votes (2 yes)
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  • PlebolaVirus
    8 years ago

    Maybe stop pursuing such a silly, useless thing and do something productive?

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Normal if, sorry to say it, he's losing interest in you

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  • duckcakes
    8 years ago

    He may have another woman on his mind...just a thought. Also he may just be losing interest in you. Try being more interesting, more open, idk, that's what usually works for me. Did you say anything to make him upset with you? And the last thing, as hurtful as it may seem, you might want to consider the fact that he was talking to you to make someone else jealous or he was just talking to you until he found someone he considered "better". However, if you want the honest truth, just ask him.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sounds like he doesn't see any reason to own the cow if he's getting the milk for free anyway.

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    • wigz
      8 years ago

      No, it sounds like he quit drinking the milk too.

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